Hello from Michigan I have a question

[Pix]

From this alone I'd say you're straight. Liking gay porn doesn't seem to mean you're more than bi-curious at most unless you REALLY like it A LOT.

Btw, plenty of lesbians love the strap-on, but we still don't want a dick. If we wanted dick as well then we'd be bi, but just being interested in a strap on worn by a woman means we're gay. mile:

[JasonBourne]

Thanks Pix btw I hope you don't care that I checked out your profile. It pretty crazy my gf is also blonde haired blue eyed but shes 5ft9 taller than me lol im about 5ft6.

[fenris]

I can´t see anything gay in your behavior .... you just like to experiment, found out that you have a prostate and you do not ignore it because it maybe is a gay behavior, you just found out a source of new good feelings.... many people like to watch gay porn and are straight.... so ... I don´t think you are gay..... maybe a bit bi... but ... who cares ...nothing wrong with it.

[JasonBourne]

thanks fenris

[Pix]

Thanks Pix btw I hope you don't care that I checked out your profile. It pretty crazy my gf is also blonde haired blue eyed but shes 5ft9 taller than me lol im about 5ft6.

It's ok, it's there for anyone curious.

And since you shared that I'll share that I had 2 short but enjoyable sexual relationships with men, one at 17 and the other when I was 19. The one guy at 19 was also blond and a couple of inches shorter than me (and very small). We were both androgynous and the thing was he had a feminine look (and he was a bicurious crossdresser) and at the time I was very tomboyish (some lesbians called me a "boi"). I ended up spoiling him rotten while he lived with me which included doing him with a strap-on as we were both very experimental (he was also 19) and he wanted to explore gender reversal. I realized it couldn't last (I just wasn't into guys though I didn't mind spoiling him while it lasted), but I'm glad for having had the experience. mile:

[ChadCoxRox]

I was explaining my theory that no one is simply either/or for sexual preference exclusively by nature except according to the influences, desires, learning, etc from birth. I believe everyone has a potential to be at any point on the continuum rather than the black and white structure people tend to put on it for a myriad of reasons. I even believe that one can move on that continuum at any given point in life and that the higher functioning a person is the more fluid the concept might become given a tolerant environment. (Sorry...science geek).

My point however, was that I felt I made a mistake be saying definitively that you are not at all gay. I see clearly that you are str8 leaning into bi-curious, hence the potential for "some" gay.

Just a theory, just an opinion...and only because you asked.

Your opening sentence on this post led to my choice of approach. Very candid. Sexy, admirable, kinky... I think people who are "stuck" on the extreme ends of "totally straight" or "totally gay" and no consideration or tolerance for anything in between shut themselves off from a great deal of resource for understanding, satisfaction, fulfillment, living, loving, etc., etc..

I agree with the other posters as well so nothing is written in stone.

[ChadCoxRox]

It's ok, it's there for anyone curious.

And since you shared that I'll share that I had 2 short but enjoyable sexual relationships with men, one at 17 and the other when I was 19. The one guy at 19 was also blond and a couple of inches shorter than me (and very small). We were both androgynous and the thing was he had a feminine look (and he was a bicurious crossdresser) and at the time I was very tomboyish (some lesbians called me a "boi"). I ended up spoiling him rotten while he lived with me which included doing him with a strap-on as we were both very experimental (he was also 19) and he wanted to explore gender reversal. I realized it couldn't last (I just wasn't into guys though I didn't mind spoiling him while it lasted), but I'm glad for having had the experience. mile:

This is a hot post!

[archubbycub]

Just because you like your ass played with or even have something larger than a finger rammed up in there has NOTHING to do with your sexuality.

Sexuality is defined by the gender of the person whom you are attracted to and gets you sexually aroused

So does the idea of a man ramming himself in your ass get you excited or just your girlfriend doing that?

THANK YOU!!! One of the most asked questions I've received since coming out has been "How do you know you're gay?" See even though I've changed my relationship status to what it is now, and I have a guy that I'm seeing exclusively, he and I still haven't really done anything but flirt heavily. We are waiting for my divorce to be final (just a few more weeks) before moving forward in our relationship! But still, even though I have never had sex with a man, I know what gender I'm attracted to.

[JasonBourne]

Thanks guys.

[matty7]

mate - u have picked the name Jason Bourne u might have well picked Matt Damon - total gay hot bod who i wud give my soul to have an hour with ?>?? u deffo have a gay bi vibe