what do you think about being virgin at 23 years old?

[Dan1980]

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at any age.

[Zet]

Heh I'm a virgin my self, and all it is, is just lack of experience It's not you're going to apply for a relationship like you do with work where experience is required

[princealbertofb]

Like being born and the only thing that we can be sure of is dying one day, being a virgin is part of the package, you are born a virgin in all sorts of areas... It'll last until you lose that virginity, but there is no time scale to tell us when we have to lose that virginity and become experienced. Even with experience there's a little experience (maybe not enough) and a lot of experience (which should make you feel comfortable with it, probably), but it's the learning process that is interesting, not the fact of remaining eternally ''ignorant'' and I mean ignorant in the nicest sense possible here. Virginity only equates with a total lack of experience in one matter or another and therefore is the home for all sorts of prejudice if there is no curiosity. Fortunately, even as virgins, we can learn from and tap into other people's experiences and decide whether or not we want to live these experiences (Hallucinogen drugs, for example, don't sound right to me and I think I'll avoid them.)

Not giving your body the sex and emotions it needs is a bit like not watering a plant. If it can feed for a while off the humidity in the air, that's fine but I'm sure it thrives better if properly watered. But sucking the humidity in the air is like living your sexual and romantic life vicariously, feeding on porn and on movies (or books, or songs, or other people's stories). Sadly, it will never replace the real thing.

[mihai]

wake up ! virginity is nothing in this times.
anyway if you do it the 1st time, there are 90% chances to redo the experience right after ... so no worrys