I understand that, and I'm not blaming or accusing anyone in giving me bad advices. I already know what I should do and I'll talk to him tomorrow. I'll tell him I care about him, but I am his teacher and stuff and we have to wait with that.
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I would say: STAY AWAY, for your sake. it can become a huge problem. Anything goes wrong, your job and record it damaged. just my 2 cents
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He is only 15 so you would be his first love , so you would have to take the approach in a careful way , and you been his teacher would not go down to well , just keep close to him as his teacher and friend and then maybe in a year or when he isnt in your school you could do something about it then, but i would not risk anything if i were u , 15 still is young and un pridactable , i mean you could advance with him, but he could have some mood swing from puperty and next thing you know you could be in trouble as he could make up stuff, u never know , take it easy anyway is all i can say
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Thanks, though he won't make up anything. He a shy and kind person.
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You can never tell that about someone unless u have spent a few years together, people can be very sly about things especially at that age , just making sure u don't mess everything up
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I don't want to sound like a dick, and it's probably already been said -- but I doubt the kid LOVES you. Seriously.. you need to analyze this situation as the adult you are. Kids have crushes. It's incredibly common.. whether it be on a teacher, or a family friend, or a neighbor. It doesn't mean that they're logically thinking about it in a long term sense. It doesn't mean that it's anything more than a fantasy or crush. Teens are full of hormones. Teens act on impulse. One day they feel one way, the next they don't. You're the adult here. What is your excuse?
I personally think if you pursue this.. it's not going to turn out good for anyone -- and at worst you can be legally charged, and at best (which is still bad) you / both will end up emotionally hurt. I think in the end you will do what feels best.. but clearly you can't be okay with continuing a relationship (which again, doesn't even exist at this point), if you made this thread.
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I am his teacher and I heard that from the others many times. I don't think they all lied to me.
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Alexander, I have to agree with the others in this thread who tell you not to act on these feelings. Even if you do start a relationship after he leaves school people will eventually find out and automatically assume it started while you were his teacher. His parents will look at you as a pedophile/sexual predator and the law would be called in to prosecute you. If you did start a relationship and broke up in the future it opens up the kid himself could also call the law on your actions. Do you really want to potentially put yourself into such a bad place?
Also, as the boy in question is still a child, he needs the time to fully mature into an adult (not saying that there aren't mature kids) and be in a proper state of mind where he can make well informed decisions for himself.
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I got it, ok? I will talk to him tomorrow and I'll see what he says.
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The biggest problem is that you are in a position of authority of him.
In a teenagers life they often spend more time a school with their teachers than they do with their parents.
What if he was your adopted son? Would you still consider dating him then?
Also all things considered this is just likely to be nothing more than a crush.
He might be lonely and feels its easier to relate to you than other kids in his class.
What happens if you do date and breakup or if other kids find out? (because they will find out)
That is going to make his life much much more difficult.
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