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Are there any good websites to meet guys (for relationships not hook-ups)
#1
I am on okcupid, but are there any other good websites, dating or otherwise, to meet guys for relationships? It is really hard to meet guys where I am...
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#2
plentyoffish.com (free)
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#3
try the apps on smartphones... gaydar, growlr, grindr, scruff, manhunt..

they might be for hookups but its a good way to put yourself out there!!!!

Hope you find something that helps
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#4
Dont waste your time on apps like grinder, gaydar, manhunt etc. You are right they are hook up sites and you just annoy people who are on there looking just for sex with "I want a relationship".

The secret is, some of those men on their are perfectly find husband material. But when they are on there, they are probably not in the mood for that. Different mindset.

That being said, I know two guys that have been together more then 10 years who met in a bath house.

the best thing you could do is try hanging out with friends, gay or straight in public places where people interact. It dose not have to be a bar or club, nothing wrong with that though. Try getting involved in helping people. I know some guys that met working at the Gay Community Center. You will be around a lot of gay people without the heavy bar club scene going on. Some friends met on a gay bowling league. Some guys hooked up on a dinner group.

Even if you are not attracted to anyone on your first try, they have friends, and parties and before you know it you will meet people in passing who had nothing to do with that group.

Just get yourself out there.
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#5
I am in the same boat. I have found that guys on actual dating sites- like match.com- seem a lot more serious about getting to know you as a person versus just getting disgruntled when you won't immediately send provocative pictures of yourself!
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#6
adi, only you know what you want. So the best person to find a good lover is YOU Smile

Just get out and socialise with people. Love happens, usually when your not looking too hard for it....

Good Luck

ObW
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#7
I don't recommend finding relationships online! But if you're sure that's what you want I'm sure you could use Google to find plenty of sites! Smile
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#8
Yup, in google there are plenty if you would just type "gay online dating".. However, most arent that serious and just looking for hook ups. There are more serious people in hetero online dating. However, if you are really destined to find him on those sites, then so be it. Good luck! Smile
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#9
Well I've gotten to the point where I'll try anything. Just paid for a months membership and will see what happens lol
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#10
livingproof Wrote:I am on okcupid, but are there any other good websites, dating or otherwise, to meet guys for relationships? It is really hard to meet guys where I am...

I have created a profile at maleradar is a free site ;-)
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