01-24-2013, 03:10 PM
john2013 Wrote:That is what I have to find.
A very smart person once told me, "Be careful when you go looking for trouble--you might find it."
And now I'll repeat myself: The real question here is, are your values compatible?
If you cannot trust him to value what's important to you, then there will always be this stress in your relationship and over time it will corrode (rot).
Either you learn to trust...
Or you find someone you CAN trust.
Good luck.