Lately I have felt that me and my BF are more like roommates or good friends rather than proper couple or partners. I have thought alot if this is enough for me, is it enough for him? Is he happy? Should we break up?
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It's up to you, if you want more out of your relationships.
Personally, I don't think the strong romance phase can last forever, but I would expect some aspects in the relationship would still indicate it being more than a strong friendship...like sex...and a romantic meal/date/gesture every so often, as well as hugs, kisses, sharing a bed ETC.
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Strong passion/hard love is just a phase.
Modern society seems to think that once the passion has faded that the love is gone, however in most cases what has happened is that the passionate love has deepened, matured and becomes something a bit more comfortable.
Good Friends is to be expected in a 'solid' relationship. Many couples are content with that, and many others tend to have 'phases' were old passion flares up after a period of quiet 'friendship'.
Is he happy? Unknown. Is he content? Again unknown. You need to ask him.
What are both of your needs/wants out of a relationship? Just hot passion, or can you both thrive in a settled friendship environment. If this latter you may be way ahead of the curve.
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