How are you today?

[Jay]

Jay: Hello Steve I haven't seen you in ages.
Steve: Yea...you're looking good, what are you doing later.
Jay: I have to be somewhere but lets grab a coffee tomorrow here's my number :biggrin:

The thing is Ceez, I was and have never been attracted to him. He seems like a very nice guy (and hot, if I may add) but I don't really have feeling or crush on him. So I don't know if it's a wise thing to ask him out. Or maybe it is a good thing to ask him out so I can get to know him better. In the end, I have no idea.

[Jay]

The thing is Ceez, I was and have never been attracted to him. He seems like a very nice guy (and hot, if I may add) but I don't have feeling or crush on him. So I don't know if it's a wise thing to ask him out. Or maybe it is a good thing to ask him so I can get to know him better.

Oh well. I guess it doesn't hurt to ask him out. Casual outing with a friend. Okay, I'll ask him when I see him.

Thanks Ceez.

[Rainbowmum]

So far so good,
Getting impatient with the specialist want this thyroid thing over and done with.

I am not the type of person that can take things easy.:mad:

[Jay]

So far so good,
Getting impatient with the specialist want this thyroid thing over and done with.

I am not the type of person that can take things easy.:mad:

Are you going to have surgery for thyroid, mum? My sister and younger brother both went for thyroid surgeries. My dad managed to avoid surgery as his thyroid is not so bad.

Hope you will recover very soon, mum.

[Jay]

Tomorrow a family will come to my house for 'asking ceremony'. 'Asking Ceremony' is an old wedding custom where a family (of a potential bridegroom) will come to check my sister as a potential bride. The family will come to see and check out my sister.

My parents do not practice this old wedding custom but they can't decline this family to come to our house to see my sister as it would be rude to say no.

My parents said my sister will decide herself to accept or decline the potential bridegroom. They will not interfere with her decision as this is her future. As my mom said, "This is not a game."

I honestly become defensive when I heard a guy wants to come to our house to check my sister. I asked my mom quite a lot of questions, "What does he do? Where does he come from? etc."

My mom said it was her big sister who told the guy's family about my sister. The guy's grandma was the one who really wants to check my sister. Other than that, my parents have no idea about the guy's background. Not even his name. Oh yeah, we know that he is a reporter. That is all.

I can't help to think about the potential bridegroom's finance background and occupation. I don't care about my own guy's finance/job but for my own sister, different story - Wedding cost, supporting children in the future, etc. My sister works as a lecturer (Computer Engineering) for a prestigious university so I think the potential guy needs to be somewhere around her level. Financially in particular. I don't think it's right for the wife to have higher wage than the husband as the husband should be the one who supports his future family. Hmm, do I sound narrow minded?

And my sister is really independent and career type of woman. The guy needs to accept the fact that my sister is not going to be just a housewife.

I jokingly thought of wearing a tight sleeveless white singlet when meeting the guy's family tomorrow. Just to make sure that the guy's family knows that my sister has a buff younger brother that shouldn't be messed with. So please don't dare to screw my sister off.

My relationship with my parents and my sister has been patched up ever since my first surgery. It doesn't matter whether my parents and sister accept my sexuality or not, they are still my parents and sister. I have the responsibility to watch over them.

I hope my sister will find a guy that she really likes and be happy with. Amen.

[Jay]

I forgot.

Today, my colleagues and I shared cost to buy a bouquet of red roses for our boss. It was a surprise birthday gift for her. She celebrated her birthday on last 18th Sept.

My colleagues and I celebrate each other's birthday in the office annually. My colleagues and I very close to each other. We are like a little family.

We actually have celebrated our boss' birthday earlier. Last week, to be exact. She requested to celebrate her birthday earlier because she will be off from work for a week. We served her a birthday cake and then she spent us dinner at a Chinese restaurant. It was a small Chinese restaurant. We went there because the chef has won so many cooking awards.


Celebrating our boss' birthday on last week


Celebrating our boss' birthday in a Chinese restaurant. I wore my workout clothes because I planned to go to gym after dinner. Wasn't able to though as we finished our dinner quite late.


Celebrating our boss' birthday in a Chinese restaurant

My colleagues know that I don't eat fried stuff so they served me mostly veggies, steamed and boiled food. But I didn't want to be a party pooper so I ate a bit of fried prawns etc. that my boss placed on my plate.

So back to today's bouquet of red roses - My boss was in her room when my colleagues and I were busy whispering to each other thinking of a plan on how to march into her room.

My colleagues asked me to be the man of honor by holding the bouquet of flowers. One of my colleagues then played a birthday song via his Iphone. He then slipped the Iphone into my sweater that I was wearing. "A walking birthday jukebox" He said.

We then slowly marched into her room. Surprise!

[Blue]

Frustrated and irritated - Just when I think I've about got the tangle with my ex untangled, something else rears it's head.

[Puck]

My little emoticon says it all....hung....the.....fuck...over

*groans* Late night Taco Bell and Captain Morgan are a deadly combination, the hell was I thinking?

[Rainbowmum]

Are you going to have surgery for thyroid, mum? My sister and younger brother both went for thyroid surgeries. My dad managed to avoid surgery as his thyroid is not so bad.

Hope you will recover very soon, mum.

Thanks sweetie
They are thinking of just killing it off ,not operating.
The damn thing is making my heart race so I am on tablets until it is done .

I absolutely despise having to take it easy, no sports,no fitness training, power walking , dancing , stairs or even lifting things.
It is driving me crazy.

[Ilyazviel]

I'm confused and feel less confident. I need to write an essay about the financial crisis in Europe but i really don't have any idea about what to write.