How are you today?

[Dan1980]

I am happy just found out that my cousin has given birth to a beautiful baby girl who she named Jessie May after our great grandmother.

[Miles]

Congrats to your cousin and to 'Uncle' Dan!

[Liam]

Tired. Studying from the moment I woke up today...

I hate you, MS Excel!

[Sylph]

Alittle Ambivalent.

Drama Bomb bros and hoes!

Today, an extremely drunk Irish man, who spoke Gaelic(which I thought was a dying language), tried to inappropriately touch me and pushed me up against the bathroom wall! Luckily Security was right outside to keep an eye on him and came to pull him off of me!

Unfortunately I couldn't do it myself cause he was bigger than me and looked like he played Rugby or something (Harlen/Harlequin or something they play in Ireland, with the netted sticks and balls), so that's how he was able to push me against the wall.

Cause you know Odi would've muscled that boy over! :p

But it probably was one of the most nerve racking things that has happened to me in a while, and afterwards, his friends came to pick him up and were speaking in English.

And then, as if things weren't all ready bad enough, my old Stalker from Highschool shows up and was trying to talk to me, but I quickly walked away!

Like, he's nice and all, well put together, but he just doesn't know how to take no for an answer and in school used to sing to me "Time after Time" and said he was gonna "take me away"...all this in class!

I'm scared to go back to work, cause he knows I work there now.

And I'm not enjoying all this attention at all, if that's what you may be thinking, It's just cause I'm so open I suppose people feel like they can gurantee something with me, than with someone "straight - acting" or whatever...

Sigh... September...hurry up so I can go to England

[oneofcuriousity]

I'm happy have four major test done. 4 to go and there the tough ones, maths, physics, chemistry and technology. So stressed.

[Tim18]

Going to have a fun night out tonight.

[Dan1980]

Going to have a fun night out tonight.

You going any where nice Tim?

[Tim18]

You going any where nice Tim?

I'm going to eat at friday's then ,I'm going to see a movie and, after that I'm just going to see were the night goes from there.

[SolemnBoy]

Okay, I need some advice but it's not big enough for a thread so I'll just write here...

One of my closest friends just woke me up (I was sleeping so nicely :c ) and asked me about the party I'm going to host in a few weeks. He recently broke up with his girlfriend, who's also a friend of mine and things are kind of bad between them. He's basically asking me not to invite her on the grounds that he and I have known each other a lot longer. About 5 times longer to be presice.

My natural reaction is to think "well he should be mature enough to handle it. both of them are my friends and their break-up shouldn't force me to fucking choose" but ugh, it's difficult. I hate this kind of drama and I momentarily hate the ones who cause it and make it seem like a big deal. I'm tempted to invite both of them and just go "if you can't handle the other one being there, then don't fucking show up". What would you do in this situation? I feel silly for even bringing up such a ridiculous dilemma. His ex and I aren't very close friends, but we do spend time together. On one hand every inch of my body resists his idea as it goes against all my "fuck teenage drama" principles, but on the other hand he is one of my very closest friends and it'd feel strange to "prioritize" a less close friend over him... thoughts?

[Wade]

Okay, I need some advice but it's not big enough for a thread so I'll just write here...

One of my closest friends just woke me up (I was sleeping so nicely :c ) and asked me about the party I'm going to host in a few weeks. He recently broke up with his girlfriend, who's also a friend of mine and things are kind of bad between them. He's basically asking me not to invite her on the grounds that he and I have known each other a lot longer. About 5 times longer to be presice.

My natural reaction is to think "well he should be mature enough to handle it. both of them are my friends and their break-up shouldn't force me to fucking choose" but ugh, it's difficult. I hate this kind of drama and I momentarily hate the ones who cause it and make it seem like a big deal. I'm tempted to invite both of them and just go "if you can't handle the other one being there, then don't fucking show up". What would you do in this situation? I feel silly for even bringing up such a ridiculous dilemma. His ex and I aren't very close friends, but we do spend time together. On one hand every inch of my body resists his idea as it goes against all my "fuck teenage drama" principles, but on the other hand he is one of my very closest friends and it'd feel strange to "prioritize" a less close friend over him... thoughts?

I would do exactly what you want to do: invite them both and be honest about it. It's not fair that he's making you choose, and despite whatever issues he has with his ex, it's inconsiderate of him to drag you into it. I never play those games with people. Just think of the future: If you don't invite her, imagine what it's going to be like the next time you meet.

Your friend may be upset that you're not playing favorites, but if he's truly your friend, he'll get over it and hopefully realize that he should not be putting you in such a position. And at least you'll be able to sleep at night knowing you did the right thing.