06-02-2013, 04:59 PM
TimeSage Wrote:1. Relax yourself. 2 Have him go as far as he can wihtout hurting you and just sit there. The muscles will tire out quickly and he can proceed. (I read this in a book, so I have no idea if it really works)
Yes, that's basically it. Enter, if it hurts, retract, let the muscle get used to the pain level, and enter again, then it will be a little less hurting, retract again, use plenty of lube. The tighter the sphincter, the other guy's penis will generally grow a bit softer, because putting pressure on the head leads to it draining anyway and not being so hard and huge and potentially hurtful. Gradually the sphincter will get used to the size of what's going in... It's like when you are having something big going down in the toilet, it's not comfortable but you can eventually do it by trying to expell several times. Train yourself with your fingers or a toy. That's the best way to master how it feels or is likely to feel before you're actually in the bedroom with a sex / romantic interest.