08-07-2013, 12:30 PM
Hi guys, im bi and i met a guy in a gay dating site,a handsome man, in my type.We started talking,i was nice and discreet.He started complimenting me a lot saying "you're hot, a beautiful man, quite a catch, you're the dream of every man " etc.He said come and stay with me, meet me, now.I thought it was a joke so i replied ok i'm coming now ha, eventhough we were 650 Miles away.We continued talking for days, in fb, on cellphone, he was texting me kisses,smiles,winks and other sweet texts... all the time i was reciprocating just as he was.we talked on phone every 3 days, every time i was calling him in a minute and he was calling me back from his mobile, from his house/office phone..we were talking every time about 1,5 hour and every single time he was saying come stay with me, we will have a great time, and i was replying "i want to", but i have bussiness here, we will see.
We kept talking, we saw each other on cam, he liked me more, he kept saying "come , you're hot, you're the perfect guy to get married, we have so much in common, i would like to marry you but i dont think you would want", and i replied "who konws maybe or maybe not"(I thought that in order to call me from his house phone he must be a serious guy).We kept talking for 6 months, in texts, calls and every time he would invite me into his house. I was recipient, cool, full in humor, i wasnt pushing him nor i was ignoring him..From our conversation and from what he was saying, i thought he was a balanced man, he had very logic thoughts and i thought that he must really like me to talk with me for 6 months.I really liked him but i was cool and ok..After the 154th invitation i said ok i will come..He said perfect, we would spend the best week of our life. Then he said "Come and if it doesnt happen anything with us i wont kick u out, we will spent a week as friends, and if it happens i will keep you and i wont let you go. I bought cheap airline tickets, and i texted him,"I m coming in a week"..he said "Great, i cant wait", every day he was texting "come" counting down 3days,2days to meet each other..
The morning before the flight i found a text "a thousand apologies, i was waiting so much and i knew smthng would go wrong, my sister will come the day after tommorow, i can only accomodate you for a night and an afternoon(hint that he wanted a one night stand). i texted call me and we will figure it out,he said i cant now i'll call later..he calls me saying that story, and i say "if u cant accomodate thats ok, another time, i understand, im going unpacking".He replied "sorry i couldnt prevent it, u bought tickets".I said tell me what you want it's ok, we have 2 minds we can work this out.he paused.he said" if u can come tommorrow for a day, later stay somewher else and after 3 days u will come in me, then asked do u have somewhere to stay? I said "i will find somewhere to stay"..then i suggested to ask his sister if she could come a day later, if she cant it's ok i will come for 2 days..i told him ask her and we will talk later... at noon i texted "what's up , tell me in order to make my schedule..,tell me anything, if u cant it's ok, if you can tell me because i wanna pack up things tommorow i'm flying"..he texted " i havent spoken to my sister yet"..i reply ok, is this a joke? At least tommorow the invitation is on, or will i fly and in the middle u will cancel? he replied" why are u teasing me? i had a bad day..i said ok im joking...i got mad, i deleted him from skype, and later he texted me did u erase me? i said no,skype must have gone wild.It's about 10 oclock in the night, he didnt text, i'm furious so i text him what's up finally? he said i cant find my sister, she isnt home",I called him3 times, he didnt answer, he texted i cant talk, i texted call me about a minute just to figure out something, or tell me something yes or no.he didnt replied.I sent, "you are inadmissible", he texted will you come for 2 days? i texted call me, those things are said on the phone not in texts...i called him again 2 times,he didnt answer, and then i texted" im cancelling the ticket because of your attitute, you're an asshole, i dont want to meet you anymore" bye!!! and 5 a.m. he texted i have no excuses and i wont excuse myself..i had a roughday, i was letting you wknow in texts what's happening as i always did, i couldnt answer the phone,i dont want you to have a wrong opinion about me,we arranged u come about 2 days, i really thought we had smth great and would have an affair, but as u want, goodnight".How can a hot guy for 6 months become so cold the last day? did i do smth wrong or he is crazy?
The next day from remorse and from the advices of my friends i texted sorry i called you an asshole, i thought u were avoiding me, u must had really bussiness...he replied " everythinh u said was totally worth it, a thousand apollogies but the situation is not as it seems....i was renovating my house, and it had a lot of commotion"... : ) ...and then he said if u want, we can arrange it again man"... come whenever u want, but u're gonna pay for that asshole word, hahaha, im going to punish u really hard PP"
We kept talking, then i gave him space for a week( i didnt want to be pushy) , and then he asked me u didnt come, i said i couldnt, i can now, im thinking to come in 3 days...he didnt reply...i texted can i call u? he said yeah man call me whenever u want..i call him and then he texts me i cant talk right now man, would u like to call u in 2 hours or tommorrow? i said whenever u can...he replied "whenever i can i 'll text u and if u are available i' ll call"...and of course it's been 2 weeks and hasnt called...and of course i didnt texted him again...
and pretty much all the internet dating meetings are like this....
We kept talking, we saw each other on cam, he liked me more, he kept saying "come , you're hot, you're the perfect guy to get married, we have so much in common, i would like to marry you but i dont think you would want", and i replied "who konws maybe or maybe not"(I thought that in order to call me from his house phone he must be a serious guy).We kept talking for 6 months, in texts, calls and every time he would invite me into his house. I was recipient, cool, full in humor, i wasnt pushing him nor i was ignoring him..From our conversation and from what he was saying, i thought he was a balanced man, he had very logic thoughts and i thought that he must really like me to talk with me for 6 months.I really liked him but i was cool and ok..After the 154th invitation i said ok i will come..He said perfect, we would spend the best week of our life. Then he said "Come and if it doesnt happen anything with us i wont kick u out, we will spent a week as friends, and if it happens i will keep you and i wont let you go. I bought cheap airline tickets, and i texted him,"I m coming in a week"..he said "Great, i cant wait", every day he was texting "come" counting down 3days,2days to meet each other..
The morning before the flight i found a text "a thousand apologies, i was waiting so much and i knew smthng would go wrong, my sister will come the day after tommorow, i can only accomodate you for a night and an afternoon(hint that he wanted a one night stand). i texted call me and we will figure it out,he said i cant now i'll call later..he calls me saying that story, and i say "if u cant accomodate thats ok, another time, i understand, im going unpacking".He replied "sorry i couldnt prevent it, u bought tickets".I said tell me what you want it's ok, we have 2 minds we can work this out.he paused.he said" if u can come tommorrow for a day, later stay somewher else and after 3 days u will come in me, then asked do u have somewhere to stay? I said "i will find somewhere to stay"..then i suggested to ask his sister if she could come a day later, if she cant it's ok i will come for 2 days..i told him ask her and we will talk later... at noon i texted "what's up , tell me in order to make my schedule..,tell me anything, if u cant it's ok, if you can tell me because i wanna pack up things tommorow i'm flying"..he texted " i havent spoken to my sister yet"..i reply ok, is this a joke? At least tommorow the invitation is on, or will i fly and in the middle u will cancel? he replied" why are u teasing me? i had a bad day..i said ok im joking...i got mad, i deleted him from skype, and later he texted me did u erase me? i said no,skype must have gone wild.It's about 10 oclock in the night, he didnt text, i'm furious so i text him what's up finally? he said i cant find my sister, she isnt home",I called him3 times, he didnt answer, he texted i cant talk, i texted call me about a minute just to figure out something, or tell me something yes or no.he didnt replied.I sent, "you are inadmissible", he texted will you come for 2 days? i texted call me, those things are said on the phone not in texts...i called him again 2 times,he didnt answer, and then i texted" im cancelling the ticket because of your attitute, you're an asshole, i dont want to meet you anymore" bye!!! and 5 a.m. he texted i have no excuses and i wont excuse myself..i had a roughday, i was letting you wknow in texts what's happening as i always did, i couldnt answer the phone,i dont want you to have a wrong opinion about me,we arranged u come about 2 days, i really thought we had smth great and would have an affair, but as u want, goodnight".How can a hot guy for 6 months become so cold the last day? did i do smth wrong or he is crazy?
The next day from remorse and from the advices of my friends i texted sorry i called you an asshole, i thought u were avoiding me, u must had really bussiness...he replied " everythinh u said was totally worth it, a thousand apollogies but the situation is not as it seems....i was renovating my house, and it had a lot of commotion"... : ) ...and then he said if u want, we can arrange it again man"... come whenever u want, but u're gonna pay for that asshole word, hahaha, im going to punish u really hard PP"
We kept talking, then i gave him space for a week( i didnt want to be pushy) , and then he asked me u didnt come, i said i couldnt, i can now, im thinking to come in 3 days...he didnt reply...i texted can i call u? he said yeah man call me whenever u want..i call him and then he texts me i cant talk right now man, would u like to call u in 2 hours or tommorrow? i said whenever u can...he replied "whenever i can i 'll text u and if u are available i' ll call"...and of course it's been 2 weeks and hasnt called...and of course i didnt texted him again...
and pretty much all the internet dating meetings are like this....