08-09-2013, 02:07 AM
I'm really needing some advice about the relationship I'm in. I've been seeing this guy exclusively now for almost 9 months and while he's a really great guy, I'm just not sure I'm still in love with him.
Like most relationships, things started out great. We met online and after about a month of talking and getting to know one another we finally met for the first time face to face. We really hit it off well and I found myself going to see him every chance I got. He was living about 45 minutes away from me at the time and since I was the one who had the vehicle (his has a disability so he can't drive) I would make all the trips for us to be together which I didn't mind.
Then, back in March of this year we moved in together, and things were really good , but lately it's gotten to where at times I just don't want him to even speak to me. And what's really confusing to me is the fact that I can't really say there's anything he's done to make me feel this way. It's just that I don't want to hear what he has to say.
And as I'm typing this, I feel like such a douche bag for feeling like this. I just don't know what to do or say anymore. Am I wrong for feeling like this? I don't want to hurt him, and I don't want to throw something good away, but I just don't know if I can see myself spending the rest of my life with him! I'm so confused at this point.
Like most relationships, things started out great. We met online and after about a month of talking and getting to know one another we finally met for the first time face to face. We really hit it off well and I found myself going to see him every chance I got. He was living about 45 minutes away from me at the time and since I was the one who had the vehicle (his has a disability so he can't drive) I would make all the trips for us to be together which I didn't mind.
Then, back in March of this year we moved in together, and things were really good , but lately it's gotten to where at times I just don't want him to even speak to me. And what's really confusing to me is the fact that I can't really say there's anything he's done to make me feel this way. It's just that I don't want to hear what he has to say.
And as I'm typing this, I feel like such a douche bag for feeling like this. I just don't know what to do or say anymore. Am I wrong for feeling like this? I don't want to hurt him, and I don't want to throw something good away, but I just don't know if I can see myself spending the rest of my life with him! I'm so confused at this point.