Not sure about orientation...

[Eros]

I had sex with over 30 guys who said they were straight. All said they loved having sex with me but eventually they all married and had children. I even have a few godsons for my efforts.

Sooo they could've said they loved it just because they were polite, and maybe you just reasured them they were straight... who knows ;D

[Tyrion]

Be careful with me. I talk like my cousin John Brennan, the new CIA Director. I am authoritative by nature and like to be the boss. All the guys, about 40, who have had sex with me describe me as gentle and kind. I also never leave any doubt that I have been openly gay for 57 years and enjoy it.

I almost never had sex with a guy who thought of himself as gay. Most guys I knew were at a point of change in their life and I would suggest do you want to try something different. Second warning. all my friends from 5th grade forward said I was a dead ringer for Justin Bieber. I always had an erection and loved grabbing it in front of anyone. Boys and girls found me sexually attractive. I would offer to teach a guy something about his body. I would lean forward, land on my shoulder and come back to an upright position. The marine corps loved me because I was an excellent fighter and marksman. People called me a Man's man. I liked guys and made no bones about it.

I had sex with over 30 guys who said they were straight. All said they loved having sex with me but eventually they all married and had children. I even have a few godsons for my efforts. My usual approach would be to ask you if you are curious about sex with guys. Most guys are but don't want to make a serious commitment, just do some personal research about their own convictions. That's great with me, another guy will come along. I usually stayed friends with old lovers and we joke about our families and friends. It's nice to have sex with a guy and stay friends. Needless to say I got hit by a straight guy named Tom and we exploded on the spot. We are still madly in love with each other. I guess I won with Tom. He enjoyed sex with me, and me only, and I enjoyed sex with Tom because he was gorgeous.

First rule. I was always truthful about myself and would expect you to be the same. If you were curious I would ask you show me how to blow you. You show me and I will deliver. I tried to make sure a guy was not promising to love me forever. A few weeks, a few months, a few years and one guy for life. I hate being pressured. I like things to be easy going and pleasant. I always talk about other subjects like quantum physics, philosophy, art, music. I have an IQ over 160 and am not very patient with dumb guys. I like guys who are curious. You sound curious and I can feel my hand edging towards your zipper. I like a guy who says "Thanks John, I really enjoyed that. I hope we meet again some day." I like meeting old lovers and kidding them. "Hey, did your wife like that tatoo, Tommy?" "Shut the fuck up, John. She thinks she's the only one who felt my ass."
I liked to flirt with guys as cute boys do. Ugly and fat boys are really screwed. Until you know who you are, never go near a guy who says he is madly in love with you. Guys liked me because I was easy going and kept going when they dated girls. Straights nice and you can have children. How do you feel about marriage and children. If that's what you want, stay straight. Your life will be easier as a straight man. I still love making it with a man. Happier than some straight guys I know. I've watched guys go through ugly divorces because they didn't find out about all their sexual feelings. Find out now. Not after you get engage or married. No harm no foul for a 21 year old to be curious. Don't abuse gay guys. We do have tempers. I never felt bad that I had sex with straight guys who got married. Most guys will eventually want a wife.

Good luck.
John

Maybe it's because of your super high IQ, but that was one of the weirdest posts I've ever read. Thank you.

[kidchameleon]

....I...I'm not exactly sure how to respond to all that, John. ._. But I thought sexuality wasn't a choice. How can I stay straight or how can someone have sex with a guy, like it, but continue to be straight if it's not a choice?

The above was most likely a work of fiction. Take it with a pinch of salt At least

[Jesunrocks]

I've been watching gay porns my whole life, but that has never failed to arouse me. so.. i think the attraction seems to be there. And personally I do not see the need for an inner debate over the body vs. the heart. I respect your choice of keeping your virginity. It is only natural that you're confused right now, but take a deep breath. Just let the chips fall where they may.

[TonyAndonuts]

Well, thanks for all the advice everyone. I'm going to try and not let it bug me too much. My sexuality is my own business and I don't think I need to make any kind of statement about it yet, unless the time comes where I do end up liking a guy in THAT way. Then I'd have to tell my family and friends. But until that happens, and I'm not sure if it ever will, I'm just gonna go with what I've always known.