Straight porn bores me

[pellaz]

gay or straight you are going to have to see if you get along with guys better than the ladies when you date.

[TonyAndonuts]

I know I need a girlfriend, but I have like -3 social skills. -_-; I made a thread about coming out of my shell in Need Your Advice.

[Arkansota]

I love straight porn, as long as the woman has little enough involvement that I can tune her out

[TonyAndonuts]

In my case, it's kinda hard to tune out two guys going at it if I really am straight. I guess gay people could enjoy straight porn 50%, but for a straight guy to enjoy gay porn to any kind of percentage...what does that say?

[MisterLove]

I still watch porn every now and then but it has become too grotesque for me. It's the modern day equivalent of the XIX century freak shows.

[Drew]

Ah, you sound like me when I was in my early 20's!

Something no one has mentioned yet, but I swear on to God-Buddha-Allah it exists - there IS sexual fluidity in men! I'm living proof.

When I was going through puberty, I had crushes on girls in my classes and fantasized about them. But as years went by the thoughts turned to other guys. it freaked me out a little, but I was like "nah, it's just a faze, gay PORN turns me on, but would I ever get with a guy? NAH!"

Yeah, I eventually realized I was lying to myself. I even used to think kissing a guy was a yucky idea and that I'd never go through it. How wonderfully wrong I was! I could kiss beautiful men all day.

Now it is impossible to see myself with anyone BUT with another man, once you accept that as part of being who you intrinsically are. It's possible you're doing the "Kinsey Slide" like I did - just don't force it to unfold - it'll happen (or not) on it's own.

[bluefox4000]

PORN bores me, lol

Mick

[TonyAndonuts]

This is confusing. If our sexuality is born into us, then how come some people don't realize what they are until later in life, or even change what they find attractive at a later age...?

[Eros]

that you are just bored of straight porn? sometimes I go and watch cake porn :333

[NightSwan]

As for bi-curiosity, I think that's completely normal.
Then again, I don't think you can or should try to understand your own feelings based on watching porn, since it's in no way a representation of real life.
Many people enjoy watching sex that they don't actually relate to or want to try, but it excites them because it's different, "forbidden".
I identify myself as bi-sexual, but I don't enjoy straight porn for the most part. I just find it boring and it doesn't arouse me, unless it's kinky. I much prefer gay/lesbian porn because it tends to be more creative in presenting the type of sex I like to watch. All in all, porn isn't an indicator. You can LOVE watching two guys fuck the crap (lit) out of each other, but it doesn't mean you'd want that in real life.
I think it's important to make that distinction.

Also, consuming something in great quantities is bound to become boring at some point and drive you to look for new pastures.

As for being born with sexuality... Well, I don't think it's sexuality we're born with, exactly.
I mean, it's in us, but we don't realize it until we learn what it all means.
It's not about the sex, it's about the feelings. Sexual preferences may change and evolve as the person goes through life and experiences new things, but the attraction remains.
I think I always knew that I liked girls more than just "friends", but it took me time to understand these feelings because I was also attracted to boys. And nobody actually talked about bi-sexuality when I was a teenager...

All in all, I don't think you should worry about it so much. What needs to happen will happen. Hopefully. ;p