10-29-2013, 07:21 PM
This is so bitter and horrifying.
The honest to goodness truth is that you enter your relationship with the person you already are. If you're a happy person you'll bring happiness to that relationship. If your depressed you'll bring depression.
And honestly very few people who aren't as depressed and wanting a relationship are going to want to be with you --- and you won't even notice them ---- you want someone that looks happy --- and a happy person isn't going to want someone that brings them down.
This thread's header is actually a great idea. Because being happy alone sets the table for a healthy relationship. Plus, if that relationship turns unhealthy, it gives you the strength to make the healthy choices you need to make.
The honest to goodness truth is that you enter your relationship with the person you already are. If you're a happy person you'll bring happiness to that relationship. If your depressed you'll bring depression.
And honestly very few people who aren't as depressed and wanting a relationship are going to want to be with you --- and you won't even notice them ---- you want someone that looks happy --- and a happy person isn't going to want someone that brings them down.
This thread's header is actually a great idea. Because being happy alone sets the table for a healthy relationship. Plus, if that relationship turns unhealthy, it gives you the strength to make the healthy choices you need to make.