Relationship problem/confusion/stress

[Anonymous]

Well I fell in love with this guy a while ago, and there was this moment when I thought he felt the same way too but tbh I've found out he has this whole other situation going on and has another relationship, which he mentioned but didn't really clasify it as a relationship. BUt anyway the point is that I really, really like him and I have a feeling he's gna be out of my life soon, n im just wondering wether i should say something or what, cause I think he just likes me as a friend and it was just drink that causes the situation... but it might not have just been the drink and I'm a little confused tbh n dunno what the hell i should do. :confused:

[princealbertofb]

Well I fell in love with this guy a while ago, and there was this moment when I thought he felt the same way too but tbh I've found out he has this whole other situation going on and has another relationship, which he mentioned but didn't really clasify it as a relationship. BUt anyway the point is that I really, really like him and I have a feeling he's gna be out of my life soon, n im just wondering wether i should say something or what, cause I think he just likes me as a friend and it was just drink that causes the situation... but it might not have just been the drink and I'm a little confused tbh n dunno what the hell i should do. :confused:

If you think this person is going to be out of your life soon, then you have nothing to lose by just talking to him and asking him whether he's available or not, or whether you two are just friends or a bit more etc... You might also ask if it was the drink that let the barriers down or not. If you are confused, he might well be too, which is all the more reason to clear things up. If not, you could also decide to go a whole other route and just change your horizons and look somewhere else but that might be difficult as you seem to be smitten by this one person. Maybe, if you haven't said anything so far, he hasn't a clue that you feel that way for him. Well, good luck, whatever you decide to do.

[boy_toy_08]

Well if it was there was drink involved then maybe if you guys are friends it was just a bit close for comfort...liek maybe he was feeling low or needed comfort?

Also if he has another situation going on it could just mess up his head if he was faced with an additional man.

Whatever happens I'm sure it'll work out, you sound like you are good mates by the time you're drinking together? So at least he is still a mate, might ruin the friendship?