Self-esteem and how to get some

[Joshular]

Joshulars guide to self esteem

Get a hair cut
Work out
Get better dress sense

OR IMO the better option

GIVE NO SHITS!
GIVE NO FUCKS!
CARE ABOUT THINGS THAT MATTER AND ANYTHING ELSE CAN SUCK AND OR FUCK A DUCK

Lubs
~Joshular

[Ekwarph]

Yeah ! The key is : don't care about how you're perceived by others. That's how one gets a nice personality, has charm and then become attractive.
The attitude is even more important than the appearance. And it's a vicious circle since those who match with the modern beauty criteria are more likely to be self confident.

[Evan88]

Its very common to feel low at times, but for me:

You need constant affirmation.. List down all the positive things that people have told you, all you can remember, list down your achievements and successes in life and read it everyday. Learn to love and appreciate yourself.

Stay away from negative people.. I for one time did this. Its really annoying to be friends or in close contact with a person who always see the wrongs in you. They are hard to please, highly critical and unfair..

Dont compare yourself to others.. Its the culprit of all insecurities and low self esteem. Every individual on earth is unique.. People have different lives and we just have to appreciate what we already have.