Penis Size

[Drkmcnamara]

But honestly Bowyn as a history major not even I expect me to bring in big enough bucks to pay for escorts so even that option would most likely be out of the question

[Drkmcnamara]

And I do want more than just sex it is just...how am I going to get any guy to pay attention to me and be attracted to me long enough so that they can see my great inner qualities?

[Drkmcnamara]

Yea I got a lot of things I need to work on before I can even think of having friends and relationships. At my present state now no one would want anything to do with me anyways. The number one priority would be for me to lose weight and build muscle mass, maybe look into helping myself out a bit and getting liposuction and possibly gastric bypass. It is very clear from listenting to the guys irl and on here that my physical appearance is absolutely unacceptable and has to change cuz no one likes it.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

But honestly Bowyn as a history major not even I expect me to bring in big enough bucks to pay for escorts so even that option would most likely be out of the question

I was talking gold digger,a guy looking for a sugar daddy.

Which such relationships can be very loving. And both parties get their rewards out of it.

However that is not all I said there. And I have previously said there are guys who will be into you.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Yea I got a lot of things I need to work on before I can even think of having friends and relationships. At my present state now no one would want anything to do with me anyways. .

I didn't say that. I told you that there are guys who are into exactly all that you have to offer.

The only reason why I suggest exercise and diet modifications is because YOU have a problem with your body image, and taking control of that may do wonders for you. You see fat and you think ugly, then you get into this whole 'I have no power over anything in my life' thing.

This is one place where you can take control and 'do something' which just doing something to make a difference in any aspect of your life will empower you and make you feel better and able to handle the rest of the stuff on your list.

The number one priority would be for me to lose weight and build muscle mass, maybe look into helping myself out a bit and getting liposuction and possibly gastric bypass. It is very clear from listenting to the guys irl and on here that my physical appearance is absolutely unacceptable and has to change cuz no one likes it.

Liposuction and by-pass are extreme and are for morbidly obese people. 20 pounds or so overweight is not morbidly obese.

There was guy who once posted here, Jay, who had a terrible weight problem and he took matters to hand and did it the old fashion way to lose weight, then later went in for skin flap removal - yeah that heavy before.

His moral and mood boosted because he did the hard work, he changed is attitude and body around, and each painful slow step held its own reward for him.


No the number one priority is to get to a therapist and start working on side tools to make depression more bearable and to work on accepting yourself.



Look - if I was oh, nearly 30 years younger I would most likely be willing to date you. I'm one of those guys who ain't that shallow. Do I consider you Relationship Material - I don't know - Other factors would play a role. such as if I thought there was a potential you were an abuser, or if you flat out refused to do monogamy.... of course over a few dates I would get to know you and see what develops.

There are a lot of us out here in the real world.

Problem is that most of the guys like me stay well far and clear of clubs and bars and places like that because we don't really like the plastic clones which you have already meet and know what they are like.

[Charon]

Here's some hopeful news, as you age this sort of issue doesn't matter as everyone shrinks as time marches on. However, if your obsession is playing havoc with your life then here's what you can do. First, head off to Bangkok where there USA board certified surgeons who can take your genitals and do pretty much anything you want with them. Low hangers? Below your knees low enough? Want the extra long all foot hot dog, Maybe not that long, but another three or four inches. Next, either shave your head or take up one of the many places that offer hair transplants and, if you're deeply into macho-they'll expand the grown on your chest, install a treasure trail and give you a bush that looks as if it was stolen from the third hole at St. Andrews. Okay, now we're up to the big surgery while the rest of it cools down and grows in; Consult a surgeon who does tummy reduction with either a band or stomach bypass. Look at Governor Christie to see if it works. And one final fillip. Any fine plastic surgeon can mold your face into the mask of Apollo if that's what you desire. A tattooist can change your eye colour, an eye doctor has pills that will make your eyelashes longer and, for purely informational and sexual purposes, there are companies that will teach you erotic bondage and discipline and after you've convinced him your for real, a top flight male companion will teach all about sex and how to do. Any good fashion consultant at Neimans or Nordstroms can re-upholster you and what else? There are etiquette schools for those in the diplomatic corps if you don't feel you know the proper way to speak and eat and Sommelier school will teach you how to select the perfect wine for the meal you've just prepared after a semester or two. Then you can say, "It's an amusing little sauce but one I think you'll find represents itself nicely on the watercress and chicory."

Now. You've been over hauled, look great and could be on the receiving line at any important function.

However there are two things you cannot buy and they are your personality and your soul. Of course, if you've done all the above you've sold you soul but that still leaves your personality.....can you look at that as analytically as you can your dick?

[Chris]

Once I watched a program on TV and there was a chubby guy and his boyfriend was very slim. Some people are into bigger guys, it depends. You know, there are even special clubs for so called bears. However, weight is something you can change. Regarding your small penis I would never leave anyone because of size and I think that most people won't. So your future can be bright, don't worry, you're just 21

[sillyboy86]

too smart for my own

So, if you meet someone who cares about size... Probably he's not enough smart for you. Next one. ;-)

And to be honest in general, the only one who cares about this kind of things are yourself. Cause the person who's attracted by you... blahblah, is attracted.
Sometimes you don't like your curly uncombed hair, sometimes your penis size, sometimes your long legs, sometimes your accent, or everything else...

[Jovial]

...as a history major...

…history buffs make me swoon big time…as I said, may have to buy engagement rings in bulk :biggrin:

I am doomed am I? I mean it is bad enough being fat, socially awkward, too smart for my own damn good...

I guess I just gonna have to accept that and bury myself in my history books until I die

I never considered myself attractive, hell I was afraid to place a profile picture for the longest time, I’m socially awkward to the point I can no longer have a conversation with people most days…as for the education and intelligence thing….well, it depends. I’m so damned tired most days I can barely think clearly and I’m not up-to-date on most current events, new technology and music which seem to be the main topics of every conversation. Try to find someone interested in discussing chickens…not easy….

I’m just saying you are not alone in your thinking. You have much to offer a potential partner as you are. You want to improve your life but losing weight, awesome!

In the meantime, I’ll be the dead corpse on page 77 of the history book…….

[CarGuy65]

OK I have been putting this off for a while. Dude, I am basically built like you are. A little on the heavy side, not a model type face (not bad though), and DEFINATELY not hung like a horse. I figured I would basically be alone for the remainder of my life. After all who would want this? Then I met a great guy to start a friendship with. When we both weren't looking....Boom it happened. We fell in love. He is an absolute size queen but he says "great to look at but what am I going to do with it..throw it over my shoulder and burp it? He accepts me for who I am and is in love with me and I him. It happened when we were not expecting it. The big point. HAVE PATIENCE! You will find love and someone who will love you for who you are and not what you have or look like. On that note I think you are a very good looking guy and if I was younger, single, and lived closer. I would date you. Size in anyway should not matter! There I sad it. By the way if you search that tumbling picture website there are many bloggers that specifically have some great photos of the less endowed not so skinny men. So there are many men out there who prefer the not so super size. That is how I am. Not to be gross but my motto has always been more than a mouthful is a waste! As well as Where do you think you're gonna put that? OK now I am done. Sorry it was so long. Derek you may email me or friend me or however that is done if you want. I would like to talk more to you. Paul