Dear friends, what do you think about gay polygamous relationship?
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I personally could never be in a polygamous relationship and they're obviously a lot more complex than the more conventional monogamous kind. However, if it works out for the persons involved, then what's the problem?
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In my observation those who lean toward the polyamorous (not to be confused with "cheaters") tend to be more careful in regards to things like safe sex and also strict standards who can be in on the relationship, and therefore can be safer than many monogamous relationships (especially where one or both "monogamous" partners cheat, as if often the case).
I don't mean to include "open relationships" and "swinging" in with polyamory.
Oh, and another observation is those who make the biggest deal about how important monogamy is to them are the most likely to cheat while expecting their partner to remain true. Perhaps it's guilt and trying to convince himself he's a better person than he (or she) is, or perhaps it's just they know what cheaters they are inside and so try to selfishly shame their partners into doing what s/he himself doesn't have the discipline to do (showing they know how hurtful their own cheating behavior is) and/or to hide the fact that deep down they're players/cheaters.
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Valet, Pix did say : "in my observation", which limits it to her experience, therefore it's not a generalisation.
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And since you started the thread, Valet, what are your views on gay polygamous relationships?
Do you mean groups of men who live together and have sex together on a regular basis? (any group starting with three people...?). There was a film called Three which described such a situation. It seemed to work for those three men, but it was "different".
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Nothing wrong with it and sex with different beings stimulates the human body's needs with energetic frequencies like real music does (not this digital fake music I am talking about real instruments not through electronics with negative frequencies attached).
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Polygamous relationships are not for me, but as long as all parties are ok with the situation, it's not a problem.
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