05-12-2014, 08:51 PM
I'm 25 years old man, however everyone who sees me believes I'm teenager still, some people have said they wouldn't give me more than 16 years. All my life I've suffered from my looks. Everyone treats me like a child, people of my age call me a kid, shop assistants always ask me to show documents when I want to buy cigarettes or alcohol. And even when they see them, they look very suspicious, as if they would think they're fake. The same happens with security guards in clubs or bars. I've to take my passport with me everywhere I go.
And the biggest problem is that it's bothering my relationships with guys. Guys in their 20ties or 30ties never pay any attention to me. When I show some initiative and try to approach someone I like, he usually says something like "I'm not into teens" or "do your parents know you're here hitting on older men?" I've only received attention from someone who's 18 or younger and I'm not interested in guys so young.
Sometimes I feel really bad about this. I feel like I'll never get myself a man. It seems so hopeless just because I don't look like I should look like in my age. I've never had a boyfriend because of this, because I don't like boys, but grown men don't even look at me, as they believe I'm lying about being 25.
What to do? Maybe I should have some plastic surgery or something?
And the biggest problem is that it's bothering my relationships with guys. Guys in their 20ties or 30ties never pay any attention to me. When I show some initiative and try to approach someone I like, he usually says something like "I'm not into teens" or "do your parents know you're here hitting on older men?" I've only received attention from someone who's 18 or younger and I'm not interested in guys so young.
Sometimes I feel really bad about this. I feel like I'll never get myself a man. It seems so hopeless just because I don't look like I should look like in my age. I've never had a boyfriend because of this, because I don't like boys, but grown men don't even look at me, as they believe I'm lying about being 25.
What to do? Maybe I should have some plastic surgery or something?