I feel like a hypocrite

[AlfredM]

If you like older guys...piano bars and cocktail hour at just about any bar will bring out those men.

I'm not sure how old are you talking here though? I'm not really a daddy chaser,but I've always preferred older guys to go out with.

[Uneunsae]

I like men about 8 years older than me. So around 40? <3

[East]

^^^It depends on the bar really..they are all a little different.

the 3/4/5 o'clock cocktail crowd is a lot older than the 6/7/8 o'clock crowd..

Basically just check around different clubs 'til you find the right one for you...they all have different personalities

[East]

Wow.. That's..a lot of numbers.. I'm actually quite surprised you could be monogamous, I've always have a perception that someone who does NSA can't be monogamous,cause he will feel like he loses the freedom he used to have. Also,I see NSA as a way for both party to just use each other,it doesn't feel good when I thought of that.

I got off track there...sorry....

I actually love the idea of using each other. It is completely honest and that is the appeal for me. A lot of people will use you but pretend it is about something else....either lying to you or lying to themselves.

I used to like the guys who wanted to use me for sex...it was mutual. I love things to be what they are.

As for monogamy with one guy....it is actually easy for me because I don't have a lot of things I held myself back from doing...I did what I wanted. I don't think I have a suppressed bone in my body:biggrin: ...and so being a slut actually made it easier for me to be monogamous...

[princealbertofb]

I've never been a slut, East.... do you think I have it in me??? (Actually, I don't think so... )

[Uneunsae]

I have a slut deep within. LOL In my fantasies.

[East]

I've never been a slut, East.... do you think I have it in me??? (Actually, I don't think so... )

LOL...I don't think you have it in you PA...but if you ever want to live vicariously through me...just give me a holler

[East]

I have a slut deep within. LOL In my fantasies.

Be kind to your inner slut...and he will be kind to you

[Uneunsae]

I'm very very kind to him!

[princealbertofb]

He actually offered me a discounted price after I said I can't afford it. I felt bad for wasting his time,so I just apologized,well,not that he had any customer tonight,his words.

I don't know if you aren't a bit young to be using an escort. I don't know you, nor your circumstances, so I'm not judging, but surely there is a way you could contact like-minded guys whose hormones are just as raging as yours?

Don't be too afraid of STDs : keep yourself clean, have the right shots, (like the one for hepatitis), and have some condoms at the ready. You can always, since you're a virgin, keep within the boundaries of safer sex, and do some hand stuff, and skin stuff, none of which should be dangerous.

What the escort might teach you is a few basics about how to keep it healthy. But then again, you've got all your friends on GaySpeak, who are ready to advise you.
Take care.