Tired of being a virgin

[Uneunsae]

Not wanting to be "the only guy you know who isn't a virgin" isn't a good reason to have sex, IMO. You are wanting to lose your virginity because of other people. It's not an organic wish or desire on your part.

[Samdabisa]

I've messed around with guys with a little in different ways but didn't do the deed till I was way past 19. It happened when I was ready. And it felt right too. It also so happened that we lost our virginity to each other. Could I have lost it a lot earlier? Yea, but I didn't because it didn't feel right to me.

[CellarDweller]

Not wanting to be "the only guy you know who isn't a virgin" isn't a good reason to have sex, IMO. You are wanting to lose your virginity because of other people. It's not an organic wish or desire on your part.

thumbs up!

[saif1232]

hmmm i believe what you should do is ask yourself whether your the kind of guy who wants to save it for that special someone or whether you dont value your virginity that much as you see sex as pure fun, that should help in making your decision, sorry if im encouraging you to lose your virginity and you dont like that , I do wanna say, virginity is over rated, but thats just me, it depends on your personality and how much you value it!