Friend's boyfriend is blackmailing me

[Iceblink]

You should have phone records. Are all the calls on your phone or almost all incoming from him?

[Borg69]

No, I don't have any messages or any text forms of his words. I guess he's smart enough to understand I could use.such things against him. Most often we're talking fce to face or phone.

What does he wants? He wants both of us. My friend for money and me for, I don't know, sex or something.

Some guys are just parasites and thrive on drama and being the center of attention... even if they have to create it to get it. What's better than being in the middle of a clandestine romance between two best friends? Mystery, intrigue, double crossing, sly meetings, sneaky looks, jealousy, rivalry, fighting each other to prove their undying love, competition with the best friend... These are the Gays of Our Lives.

Need an ego boost to your self esteem? Get two guys... best friends... to fight over you.

Being "normal" and having morals just isn't 'fun' and exciting enough.

[East]

I would be done with both of them. Immediately.

Sorry...my POV was shaped by a solid 20 years behind the bar in a gay bar and watching drama unfold every night ...and I became quite skilled at avoiding it.....

Hence...my advice.