Younger boyfriend wants me to come with him om spring break; I'm not sure.

[LJay]

Jeezy creeps! There is not so much difference in your ages that you can't deal with it. Go, for crying out loud!

[Alex]

Well Evan, nice to see that you're still with him. If you do recall you wrote asking for advice few months ago regarding going out with him when he was 16 going on 17, and now he'll be 18 soon so this mean your relationship has hit a year already, congratulation dude.

Now to the subject. Spain is a beautiful country, lot of thing to see, and lot of things to do. Because I lived in France for three years, I went to Spain a dozen of times and each and everytime it was magical. So yes, do go with him, you won't regret it.

As for the young getting hammered because they'll be all by themselves, well your presence may calm them a little, and beside they'll need you in one way or another and YOU will have a heck of a time with your boyfriend.

Be egocentrical on that one, don't worry about the others (they will learn) but you and your Boyfriend will have a very great time. I am 10 years older than my husband, and I did travel with him to many other countries in the first years and I do not regret it. The proof, 9 years later we are still together and married I might add.

By the way Spain is recognized to be one of the country with the hottest gay dudes on the surface of the earth, you really want your boyfriend to go alone with all those hotties? This is Europe my friend, not prudistic America lol.

Hehehhe baby I won't let you go alone anywhere anytime. In Spain we had the greatest time ever. Evan Go for it trust me Spain is a magical country and yes like my husband said, guys over there are way too hot. I was sitting at a cafe in Madrid and couldn't stand so much I had a hard on just by looking around hahahaha. Jake took care of it later on that night. LOL

[MikeW]

Okay you guys make me feel like an old boring grandpa. I'd written a massive response replying to everyone individually, but it really just comes down to this: I need to stop complaining and take this chance to go to freaking Europe. I do think it would be awesome to go to Spain with my boyfriend, so I should probably just stop overthinking things. Who cares, I should just go and have fun.

Thanks for being honest everyone. I feel ridiculous now haha.

Thanks! It'll be one year exactly 17 August.

Hey, I am an old grampa and I'm TOTALLY for you going. Just check your attitude and get into the fun vibe of the thing. You'll have a blast.

I'll add that I have few regrets in life. One of them is not taking a friend up on the opportunity to have dinner in Las Vegas via his dad's Lear Jet. The dad would have been paying for it and WANTED us to come have dinner with him (from San Francisco). I, being rather conservative and dull, just didn't feel right about and didn't do it. DUMB!!!!

Live a little. Hell, live more than a little!

[Virge]

Okay you guys make me feel like an old boring grandpa. I'd written a massive response replying to everyone individually, but it really just comes down to this: I need to stop complaining and take this chance to go to freaking Europe. I do think it would be awesome to go to Spain with my boyfriend, so I should probably just stop overthinking things. Who cares, I should just go and have fun.

Thanks for being honest everyone. I feel ridiculous now haha.




Thanks! It'll be one year exactly 17 August.

Everyone synchronize to perform a collective hug on Evan and let's toss him in the air a few times to get him to loosen up!!!!

Evan...... the best way to have the time of your life is to step out of your life once in a while!

[CellarDweller]

*tickles Evan to help him loosen up*

Chuck>>>><<<<Evan

[Buzzer]

Everyone synchronize to perform a collective hug on Evan and let's toss him in the air a few times to get him to loosen up!!!!

Evan...... the best way to have the time of your life is to step out of your life once in a while!

Loosen up for what, exactly?

[Undreamt]

If you are that worried about him possibly missing out on something with you there why not just agree to have days apart?

He can go off and party with his friends every night while every second night you take a break and see some museums or something.

That way you are still there with him, you can still sleep with each other each night, but you aren't stamping on each others toes.

[50Plus]

Evan, to balance out the others, I too would be in the same dilemma that you are in. Have you met his circle of friends and their other halves?

It could be an incredibly awkward experience. Although the age difference is small (from the 50+ viewpoint), it is significant from the 25 viewpoint.

Only you can make the choice. And would it be a regret? Who knows. Spain ain't goin no where.

All I am saying is don't make your decision based on the words of 10 people on an online forum.

[17vs41]

Sometimes in relationships we have to do things we may not want to do. He is your boyfriend and is asking you to be a part of this trip with him. Go and support him unless you have personal reasons that you wish to not be with your boyfriend on this trip.

[Uneunsae]

No way would I go on a trip with a bunch of 18 year olds. Not even the slightest chance. However, I would never DATE an 18 year old. LOL I never had a "party phase" and don't understand any of it in the least.

But your boyfriend is 18 so you will probably have a good time. You don't have to stay with his friends 24/7. You two should make some plans ahead of time so you can be alone.