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Gay Relationships: Shy Guys Make Good Boyfriends Too
#21
Well, I was and am still extremely shy and have suffered a lot from social anxiety. I've never been on a date either. I was close to go on a date, but when the bus was late my anxiety kicked in and I had to go home and tell the guy that I couldn't do it (which was good, probably, because he got angry and called a lot of mean names).
I don't see shyness as a sickness or a bad thing, but I'd like to break out of it. I'd love to be brave enough to actually approach a guy saying that I think he looks good or seem nice. Right now, I am constantly hoping that a guy will look my way and then have the patience to fight for me. I am not playing hard to get at all, but because of my fear of getting hurt by other people it is sort of a barrier.

If shy guys does make good boyfriends? I don't have the answer either. But what I can say: When people get close to me, my loyalty kicks in - to an extreme degree. If I make friends with people, I will always be there for them. If I fall in love, I fall very hard. And if I get hurt or someone breaks my trust: I will be broken for a long time.
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#22
Frente Wrote:If I fall in love, I fall very hard. And if I get hurt or someone breaks my trust: I will be broken for a long time.
pretty much how i feel it would be for me as well.
I don't ever want to experiance heartbreak.
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#23
Shyness (true definition)
the artistic act put on by sophisticated city boys to make country boys think they are in control of the situations that give them both chill bumps.
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#24
im surprised no one quote this:








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#25
Shyness can be deadly.
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