08-17-2014, 08:36 PM
I have a friend I've known over 30 years and he moved into a condo a couple of years ago.He met this neighbor and she's elderly,71. Well he told me that she's simpleminded.I usually hold a coffee klatch on Sundays with relatives and he asked if he could bring her so I allowed it.Well it seems she has this problem or should I say a few problems.She tends to babble and she interrupts in the middle of a conversation and what she says has nothing to do with the conversation. But the biggest problem is that everytime she's somewhere she has to crap.He told me that she has loose bowel movements and she dirties the seat.She even stained a seat in the diner once.Well on 3 different occasions in my home she's gone to the bathroom and she left evidence of it on the seat.Also she leaves such a stink and doesn't even spray and the smell comes into the kitchen.So I told him the next time she does that he's cleaning it up.So when he did clean it up he failed to clean the front of the seat because he's so used to her staining the back of the seat.Now I dread whenever she has to use my bathroom.He told her she should discuss this with her doctor but she fails to do so.He told me to leave bathroom cleaner and paper towels in the bathroom and he'll clean it up.
But the thing is I have other guests and this is embarrassing.At 63 my friend will make friends with anyone because he hates to be alone.He even has another male friend with bad underarm odor.Also a friend who's a closet case.These guys put him down a lot and he still hangs with them.Now just because he tolerates this woman's bathroom habits he can't expect me to. I'm getting really tired of this and don't know what to do.He says he can't stop bringing her over my house now because she's used to him bringing her here.I heard her cutting wet farts at the table once and prayed she didn't dirty the chair.If this guy has such low self esteem that he'll hang with anybody he shouldn't expect others to tolerate the same sh%t he tolerates.What do you guys think?
But the thing is I have other guests and this is embarrassing.At 63 my friend will make friends with anyone because he hates to be alone.He even has another male friend with bad underarm odor.Also a friend who's a closet case.These guys put him down a lot and he still hangs with them.Now just because he tolerates this woman's bathroom habits he can't expect me to. I'm getting really tired of this and don't know what to do.He says he can't stop bringing her over my house now because she's used to him bringing her here.I heard her cutting wet farts at the table once and prayed she didn't dirty the chair.If this guy has such low self esteem that he'll hang with anybody he shouldn't expect others to tolerate the same sh%t he tolerates.What do you guys think?