10-27-2014, 12:04 AM
So I attended a concert recently with a guy who I know only casually, just because we both felt like seeing it. We met online some years ago in a musical forum and have talked mostly about music, although we each know what the other does for a living, etc. But very superficial.
So we had fun at said concert, talked only a little more because, really, you can't carry on a conversation in a mosh pit, but agreed via text that we should get together again, even if it is just to eat or whatever.
So, I have not said shit about my orientation or relationship, nor asked about his, get zero gay vibe from him, and don't think there is any worry about attraction either way, but now it's like the proverbial elephant. At some point is he going to ask what my deal is? I would be very unlikely to lie about it, but also don't want to make an issue of it by just randomly throwing it out there. Just wondering how you handled similar situation.
So we had fun at said concert, talked only a little more because, really, you can't carry on a conversation in a mosh pit, but agreed via text that we should get together again, even if it is just to eat or whatever.
So, I have not said shit about my orientation or relationship, nor asked about his, get zero gay vibe from him, and don't think there is any worry about attraction either way, but now it's like the proverbial elephant. At some point is he going to ask what my deal is? I would be very unlikely to lie about it, but also don't want to make an issue of it by just randomly throwing it out there. Just wondering how you handled similar situation.