Bowyn Aerrow Wrote:I say go ahead, rip his heart out, jump up and down on it and while you are it laugh with maniacal glee as you do so.
He clearly needs to be crushed hard and good to kill out that compassionate nice fellow and to get him old, jaded and filled with hatred so he won't make the mistake of falling in love again.
Do him that favor, because if you are representative of about 90% of the faggots that walk on this earth, that means super shallow, super into the wrong things when it comes to people.
Wow. Is it just me, or are you just getting more and more nialistic of late? You need some dick, honey?
Anyway, to the OP. Right after I left my partner of 5 years I meet a man much as you describe. A friend threw me a birthday party and this guy was there. At the party, we spoke and I enjoyed visiting with him but I wasn't genuinely attracted to him, he just wasn't my type. Mainly we just chit-chatted about cars (since he was a mechanic and my car was needing some work).
The next morning, he arrived at my house driving a 1952 restored Ford Coupe and presented it to me as a birthday present. He said he had never met anyone like ,e before and that he wanted desperately to date me.
Friends told me I should give him a chance and that he was a really nice guy, so I agreed to date him with the condition that we take it SLOW due to my recent breakup.
3 days later, I came home from work to discover that he had broken into my appartment and gone through all of my unpacked boxes of stuff and was waiting in bed for me naked.
I gave the car back and told him to piss-off. He immediately called everyone we mutually knew and told them I had just been using him to get a new car.
Moral of the story: If you aren't feeling it, just say so from the start and avoid future drama.
~Beaux