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Duration of sexual intercourse
#11
uh, depends on you AND the guy you're having sex with. depends on the mood, other real life circumstances...depends on whether you want to take it slow or rush through it. you can't put a timer on it.
sometimes it lasts 10 minutes, other times it lasts well over an hour. mostly it falls somewhere between those two (for me). you just have to know what you want and how you want it.

and anal intercourse specifically averages longer.
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#12
In my experience, from penetration to orgasm.... anywhere from 10 minutes to a couple hours depending on the foreplay involved, time available, mood at the moment, which way the wind is blowing, etc.
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#13
I believe the general guideline in such matters is to ------- go at it like wild frenzied animals until you collapse in exhaustion (or get bored).

No time frame required. (smile).....
We Have Elvis !!
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#14
Depending on your stamina,average would be 15-20 mins I guess? Add more foreplay and afterplay,it could be hours~!
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#15
My own personal best was four hours with one guy who came three times.
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#16
I've ranged from less than a minute to more than an hour. The less than a minute episode was because we had heavy petting and oral and I was already very close. The hour+ events because sometimes my partner and I like to drag it out and mix it up.
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#17
With or without extacy...? lol
~Beaux
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#18
Virge Wrote:If you mean from when penetration begins until penetration ends.... That can be 5-6 hours sometimes. I like to fall asleep that way after we have sex and he doesn't mind at all. wooo Hooo!

that's nice, but -- you stay hard for ~5 hours after sex to be able to do that?
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#19
bluedragon Wrote:Hi Guys,

I am just curious...

How long will an average sexual intercourse take?

I know porn videos always show 20 to 30 minutes but I know it might not be true in real life.

And in particular, how long does an average anal intercourse take?

He trots out statistics from previous sex studies to that end: that the length of the average sex act is 7.3 minutes, but an "astonishing" 43% of such acts are completed within 2 minutes.

Source: http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/natio...x/8281069/

This isn't foreplay, dicking around, wait, um, playing around. This is straight forward from initial penetration to orgasmic explosion. Penetration of what? Ass, mouth, vagina, hand, flesh light.... whatever handy hole is there.

Continuing from that above link:

"This isn't exactly breaking news. Alfred Kinsey determined decades ago that the majority of men ejaculated in 2 minutes or less. (Interestingly enough, a sex therapist recently defined intercourse lasting fewer than 2 minutes as premature ejaculation to the Daily Mail.)"

In other words we have so programed ourselves to believe that sex is supposed to last as long a porn video, that we have ended up denying reality and calling it premature.

Porn - its the worst thing to happen to human beings since asteroids happened to dinosaurs (with, undoubtedly, similar long term effects)
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#20
meridannight Wrote:that's nice, but -- you stay hard for ~5 hours after sex to be able to do that?

it's due to a combo of many things.

My Teutonic genes make me a show-er not a grower. What you see (at room temperature) is what you get + only about 30 - 40% when it gets mad. Size may vary in close proximity to a consenting FINE naked 98.6 body under goose down comforters.

Increased horniness from a feast or famine sex life. Considering that since 2006 my sex life has 3 - 4 months of none 6 days of all I can handle, I stay hornier than a six nutted tom cat. This may change after Christmas when I will at last have the opportunity for a regular sex life.

Interpersonal Chemistry. What can I say? My guy is my own walking source of pheromones and aphrodisiacs. Everything about him turns me into an aspiring rapist.

Adventurous sex. It's not just for bedrooms at night, you know. The fun of any road trip is blow jobs and hand jobs which only increase the craving for the real stuff. When he was here in September we did a quickie in town hall about 1 PM on the upstairs conference room table. Going to my parent's house for dinner we routinely go out the back door to have a walk, sneak around the house to the garage for a quickie in the loft above the cars..

His pleasure and satisfaction. Since we've pretty much worked out all the kinks in his being able to have serial Multiple Male Orgasms during penetration I get more from participating in his orgasms than my own. On a bad night he's going to get at least two clusters of 5 to 8 'dry' orgasms twenty to forty seconds apart for every ejaculatory orgasm I have. After the first round, I usually I hold off on ejaculating without pulling out until he's had time to recover so I can give him more MMOs followed up with our time perfected simultaneous ejaculations. Then it's time for a snooze while still connected.

I can just about guarantee that after he gets here and sleeps off some jet lag --- on the morning of December 27th I'll ejaculate three times without pulling out and there will be no way to keep up with the number of his individual orgasms... and then we'll spoon, snooze and grind until we're starving or have to pee or fuck again.... or decide to take a shower and get all horned up again and do a quickie so we can make it until dark.

and.... All the crap I've heard from older guys telling me sex drive drops off once you hit thirty has motivated me to get all I can before I get old.... Jay's thirty now. If he starts complaining I have a claw hammer in the bedside table to convince him to cooperate.

Sorry yet that you asked?
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