Unbalanced relationship

[Rareboy]

^ Well you have me stumped.

What do you want us to do? Talk to your partner and sort him out?

The fact is...you're going to have to do all the heavy lifting on this. We've pointed out what we'd do. You'll have to be the one to decide whether the benefits of living with this guy outweigh the disadvantages and then apparently....you are going to have to suffer in silence...or just make it clear to whoever is listening or reading when you just want to have a good rant....but aren't looking for any advice or a solution.

[Zurdoknoc]

No....I don't want that. That is a silly answer. I'm here to expose my relationship issues and read your point of view. The final choice is only Mine. I truly appreciate what everybody had said and I have kept it into consideration. Leaving someone you love because he doesn't meet your expectTions is hard not easy. I was told sold the idea things were going to be different and I bought it. Anyway ......for some peopke takes time to realize things are not perfect and for others takes a second. Thanks for your comments and as far as today. I am in love

[JackTX]

He doesn't want to talk about our problems and even find a solution. He doesn't want to share commitment or even think about it.

What a catch!

If your partner won’t fuck you, one person doesn’t have the right to unilaterally declare another person’s sex life over.

[Virge]

Damn Zurdoknoc It appears words I wrote in a nice way to you didn't do anything but leave skid marks on your forehead and ricochet off to outer space. #3 and #4 on my 1st post were things you need to work on real bad.

If we didn't know it before you made it real clear in your response to my 1st comment. Everything you say about him is a reflection of him not meeting your expectations.

Yeah, it's time for me to really quit trying to give advice.

[Zurdoknoc]

Thanks for your all your advice and support. I am taking The best out your comments. Want yo know thw latest? I don't know if I mentioned that but I have 2 kids. They stay with "us" AKA ME every other weekend. He had 2 grown up kids from his previous life, who they come by every once in a while. Kids are a blessing Everybody should feel thankful with life if you have them. I love mine. He know that. They are my world. So he was. The only time of the year when I have my kids with me is during the xmas break. Perfect season because I am on vacations too. Tonight.....he made a comment (and a face) that make me feel horrible "are they gonna stay for 10 days!!!!!!!!!" .......his face.....just unforgettable....broke my heart....my soul...my spirit and myself in pieces.....my kids are good kids. They don't ask him for nothing. They don't bother. They are not noisy. They are not rude or gross or annoying. This was just a shot straight to the heart. He tried to fix it when he saw the look of my face....but......some things when they are broken just can't be fixed. I can't believe that someone who says he "loves" me makes such terrible comments about something that I care about....I would never do that to anyone. ....tonight.....just heart broken ....I guess the beginning of the end will start soon