I know this is kind of weird, so I don't expect people to have much to say on the matter. I play with myself, but it's difficult to get real pleasure. I might get a few damp spots on my boxers, but that's it. However, occasionally, I'll wake up at the climax of a wet dream, finding myself masturbating - my first thought is "crap" because there's a huge mess coming, but it is extremely pleasurable. I have never had an experience like it when I'm fully awake. This would probably be understandable if I were 11 years old, but I'm actually 21. It seems that I haven't sexually matured yet (nor have I mentally matured, but that's neither here nor there). I'm not sure exactly what I'm asking. Maybe I'll start with this: does my story resonate with any of you?
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Have you been checked out by a doctor?
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No. I know it must be annoying to see people post on here instead of going to a doctor. I have thought about it, but knowing what to say is the difficult part. Also, I'll have to register with another doctor - at home, things aren't so private. I know the doctor can't say anything to anyone, but I still wouldn't say anything so personal to them. Registering with a doctor who doesn't know me is probably my best option.
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To me it sounds psychological. Your subconscious mind is allowing you to feel pleasure when you're asleep where your conscious awake mind will not.
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The doctor is there to make sure your body is operating at maximum efficiency. You shouldn't be afraid to talk to your doctor about anything physically related.
When you masturbate while you're awake, do you fantasize? Or do you rely on porn?
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As the others have stated get yourself checked out by a Doctor, you might find the thought of doing this embarrassing but if you have a medical problem it needs treating.
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So what you are saying is that you only ejaculate a small amount when you masturbate while awake, but much more when you wake up during a wet dream?
That would be
"Doctor, I only ejaculate a small amount when I masturbate while awake, but much more when I wake up during a wet dream. Is something wrong?"
Just ask to be registered with a doctor who is not an old style Catholic female. Young Jewish guy would be best, especially if his name is Portnoy.
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nope, can't say i relate. i started masturbating around the age of 14. i've never had problems with it.
are you saying this has always been the case with you? that sure sounds odd. have you consulted a doctor about this? i suggest you do that. nothing weird or embarrassing (as young people seem to think) about it.
you say you think you're not fully sexually matured. do you have other reasons to think this, other than problems related to masturbation?
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Are you jacking off the normal way with your hand around your dick or do you have a method unique to you? You mention only having a couple damp spots on your boxers which makes me wonder how you are doing it? Are you watching porn when you do it or something else?
More details, please.
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