Masturbation problems

[Cuddly]

I'm sorry. I wasn't sure if I was being too whiny. I try to stay grounded by making fun of myself - hence the euphemism. I didn't think people would take that line seriously. Maybe i should start using lols. Also, I am kind of out of touch - I wasn't sure if I should say penis or dick. I only want to be friendly, but maybe my idea of friendliness is a bit distorted. I am not a troll, but maybe this does sound far fetched. It is true, though. I never fully appreciated how unusual this is.

Haha! I found it amusing, but can see why the others were alarmed. Had we known you better, it wouldn't have been mentioned.

Ok, so you're serious.
Let's identify the problem;

• find porn that turns you on. There's gaytube, xtube, redtube etc. I have no idea if they're virus infested.
• now, with your raging boner and your porn, masturbate until your breathing gets laboured and you climax. Hold your dick like you'd hold a sword. Don't think about anything else until you're done.

• if it worked you're cured.
• if it didn't work, try to think back and figure out where it went wrong. Was the porn not enough? Did thoughts of mum and dad interrupt your climax? Were you afraid you might succeed so you pulled the plug?

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Have a pleasant friday night!

Oh and btw, everybody does it. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

[TwisttheLeaf]

I'm sorry. I wasn't sure if I was being too whiny. I try to stay grounded by making fun of myself - hence the euphemism. I didn't think people would take that line seriously. Maybe i should start using lols. Also, I am kind of out of touch - I wasn't sure if I should say penis or dick. I only want to be friendly, but maybe my idea of friendliness is a bit distorted.

Just say what feels most comfortable for you, man. There's days when I come on here and I can't curse without it feeling weird or wrong. Then there's days when I drop the 'F'-bomb repeatedly among a plethora of other colorful words, yeah? We won't be offended unless you're doing it -to- offend.

I am not a troll, but maybe this does sound far fetched. It is true, though. I never fully appreciated how unusual this is.

Like [MENTION=22364]Satinesque[/MENTION], I operate on the assumption that who you say you are is the truth as well as that what you say you're experiencing is also true. Not everyone on the board operates that way, yeah? But it works for me. No worries.

Let's identify the problem;

• find porn that turns you on. There's gaytube, xtube, redtube etc. I have no idea if they're virus infested.
• now, with your raging boner and your porn, masturbate until your breathing gets laboured and you climax. Hold your dick like you'd hold a sword. Don't think about anything else until you're done.

• if it worked you're cured.
• if it didn't work, try to think back and figure out where it went wrong. Was the porn not enough? Did thoughts of mum and dad interrupt your climax? Were you afraid you might succeed so you pulled the plug?

Excellent advice. No harm in giving it a go. Redtube will be a safe source as long as you only watch the vids on their site and don't click advertisements/external links.

If you need a VPN in order to access the site, try Hola.org

[LJay]

I sense guilt. A lot of guilt. Too much repression. I am lead to believe that is not uncommon in Irish culture.

You might well talk to that doctor about some behavioral counseling.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

No. I know it must be annoying to see people post on here instead of going to a doctor. I have thought about it, but knowing what to say is the difficult part. Also, I'll have to register with another doctor - at home, things aren't so private. I know the doctor can't say anything to anyone, but I still wouldn't say anything so personal to them. Registering with a doctor who doesn't know me is probably my best option.

Well you need to tell your doctor. If you are having hormone issues at your age and delayed puberty/physical maturity I can guarantee you that the window for easy fixing of that is closing rapidly. IF there is a physical dysfunction of the nerves in your prick, cock, dick, pisser, tool, wood, erection, penis, etc.... then the problem may be a bit more complicated, but could result in your not being as sensitive thus not as physically excitable by the stimulation of masturbation.

Wet dreams are usually more brain based, while some guys do sleep with their hands down their pants, or on their Johnson, or hump the bed whilst sleeping, a larger number don't need the physical stimulation to climax during a wet dream.

I think its safe to rule out hormonal issues as you appear to be able to master the art of a full load. So that leaves us with sensitivity issues, or psychological issues.

Do NOT turn to porn. Not until you consult with a physician.

Assuming for a moment that this isn't biochemical, but is psychological a 'sexual hang-up' that puts you at a much higher risk of becoming a porn addict and that leads to too many other issues that would make this current issue pale on comparison.

Apparently you can put words to this issue to a public forum full of strangers and did a bang-up job of explaining what is going on. The problem here is you can't or won't tell your doctor.

The leading cause for men's sexual health issues being as wide spread as they are is that men are loath to discuss their own endowments with a doctor, so many do not get a physical exam or get asked the right questions when early onset of issues start. Thus its not until things like permanent damage, ED and other interesting things set in forever that a guy decides its time to talk to his doctor about the loss of his manhood. by then its usually way too late to undo whatever dysfunction is taking place.

But now days there is Viagra and Cialys... So I guess you can wait until your dick stops functioning all together and get pills for that.

[himself]

I'm seriously considering going to the doctor. I think I'll write out what I'm going to say to the doctor beforehand. If I feel too weird to say it aloud, I can hand the note to the doctor - make them work for their wage.

[Cuddly]

I'm seriously considering going to the doctor. I think I'll write out what I'm going to say to the doctor beforehand. If I feel too weird to say it aloud, I can hand the note to the doctor - make them work for their wage.

You could probably email with your doctor.

[Lexington]

If you'd rather try something yourself before going to the doctor, maybe give this a go.

Give yourself some alone time - like a lot. Don't try to squeeze this in during ten minutes. Give yourself at least an hour. Get undressed, or if you get chilly easily, wear something really loose that gives you easy access. Then, get a fantasy going. Anything you like. And really immerse yourself into it. Don't do this by halves. Don't think "Well, maybe I'd like to do this". Go whole hog into it. No matter how outlandish. If you want to fuck (or get fucked by) the entire rugby team right there on the field, go for it. This is play time, and there aren't any rules. And while you're doing that, keep masturbating. Use both hands, and include your balls, your chest, your ass, anything you feel like touching and rubbing. And just keep going. See if you can lose yourself in it.

Lex

[JackTX]

Hold your dick like you'd hold a sword.

[meridannight]

I'm seriously considering going to the doctor. I think I'll write out what I'm going to say to the doctor beforehand. If I feel too weird to say it aloud, I can hand the note to the doctor - make them work for their wage.

really? ''make them work their wage''? then don't give them any information. just show up and let them run all the possible tests and maybe just guess the answers to the questions they surely have.

you're acting like a 7-year-old who refuses to open his mouth at a dentist. your teeth are gonna rot out of your mouth if you treat your dentist that way, but small price to pay for not being embarrassed for those teeth, right?

jesus what a prude.

[LJay]

JackBone, you crack me up!