Actual thread : Sexless Relationship
03-05-2015, 04:25 AM
Your 19 and he's 42.
That is a pretty big difference in sex drive(s). Your still flowing with hormones and he is on the slow decline of Testosterone. After age 30 the T levels start to drop. This is a natural biological process, usually slow and steady. There is a reduction in blood levels of total testosterone at a rate of about 1 percent per year after the age of 30 years. That means he has lost about 12% of the testosterone by this time. While that may not seem like much, understand that when men have children, their levels drop about 10% and that is all it takes to keep them from being all roaming around looking for another mate.
And he is over 40 which means he doesn't have the energy levels you do. Around age 35 we discover that males tend to start to slow down, those late nights up drinking and partying are not easy to recover from when we were 25, being able to pull all nighter cramming sessions give way to a more serious need for sleep (rest) in order to function the next day.
Again, its a gradual decline, one that he most likely doesn't notice and think about until he sits there and starts to recall the good old days of college or when he was in his 20's.
So he might actually be that tired come evening to where he does want to put it off until morning, then you all wake up not early enough and there is the day at the grindstone or whatever.
No he most likely doesn't want to talk about it. Men are terrified of their penises and don't want to talk about them when they ain't working as the man thinks it should be. As Iceblink said above.
There is no solution as long as the old man doesn't want to do serious talking about the sexual situation.
Sorry about that.
That is a pretty big difference in sex drive(s). Your still flowing with hormones and he is on the slow decline of Testosterone. After age 30 the T levels start to drop. This is a natural biological process, usually slow and steady. There is a reduction in blood levels of total testosterone at a rate of about 1 percent per year after the age of 30 years. That means he has lost about 12% of the testosterone by this time. While that may not seem like much, understand that when men have children, their levels drop about 10% and that is all it takes to keep them from being all roaming around looking for another mate.
And he is over 40 which means he doesn't have the energy levels you do. Around age 35 we discover that males tend to start to slow down, those late nights up drinking and partying are not easy to recover from when we were 25, being able to pull all nighter cramming sessions give way to a more serious need for sleep (rest) in order to function the next day.
Again, its a gradual decline, one that he most likely doesn't notice and think about until he sits there and starts to recall the good old days of college or when he was in his 20's.
So he might actually be that tired come evening to where he does want to put it off until morning, then you all wake up not early enough and there is the day at the grindstone or whatever.
No he most likely doesn't want to talk about it. Men are terrified of their penises and don't want to talk about them when they ain't working as the man thinks it should be. As Iceblink said above.
There is no solution as long as the old man doesn't want to do serious talking about the sexual situation.
Sorry about that.
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