05-27-2015, 06:30 PM
To each its own and whatever floats your bubble as long as the other person is okay with what you are looking for. I know for myself...when it comes to sex..I'm not into choking, hitting, etc. but I remember having this huge crush on this guy that I met at a gay pride festival years ago and once we were introduced to each other formally...we started hanging out with each other and sometimes for the whole day. I knew I was really into this guy because I would get so mesmerized just being in the company of this guy and listening to him talk about whatever crosses his mind.and for awhile ...no sex was involved between us. Things did elevate to us engaging into some pretty heavy feeling and touching each other with some hot kissing...a good kisser this guy was and many times just from that..I would go home and take a cold shower...really..haha. However...this guy started kind of distancing himself from me which I found really odd since we were spending a lot of time with each other and I could tell that he was really into me as I was into him. Therefore, since we had good communication...I decided to confront him about this and I was really stunned with what I found out. This guy informed me that I was really romantic, sensual and he adored me...but he could not see himself sexually involved with me because I was too much of a classy guy and he likes for his men to beat him, punch him and shove him around. He said that physical altercation turned him on sexually. I was floored by this revelation and initially..I really thought he was joking..but he assured me that he was serious. I then told him that he was right about me and I could never see myself engaging in that kind of behavior especially on a sexual level. Since that talk...we saw very little of each other until one weekend at a club event. He ran up to me and gave me a huge kiss and hug. We talked for a minute and then he moved on. However, he gradually made his way back towards me and all of a sudden...just out of curiosity...I decided to shove him so hard that he flew to the other side of the wall. Lo and behold...this guy's reaction assured me that he was not joking about being physically subjected. This big grin came on his face and he ran into my arms and kissed me again. I then smacked him across his face and he started moaning and even got an erection. He then invited me to go home with him and have sex which I did and although the sex was hot and the physical altercation was not involved while having sex...afterwards...I had a change of heart about him and did not pursue any future with him considering what I know. Therefore, it may not be wrong..but its not for me.
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