05-30-2015, 08:46 AM
There's a couple of things about this new guy I'm dating that sort of leave me with uncertainty.
We met on Grindr a couple weeks back, and went on our first date last Sunday the 24th, a second date last Wednesday, and our third date this evening.
He's really fun to be around, he's sweet and compassionate, and every time I'm around him, I get the butterflies in the stomach feeling.
What has me feeling uncertain though: texting him, which makes me feel like my texts go ignored for awhile (perhaps just forgotten), and tonight, on this third date.
We got around to making out in his car and I could not get the idea of us spending the night together out of my head. Nothing sexual or anything, just simply spending the night together.
I feel like I got on his nerves when I asked him about it, and later I asked him if he was sure about "not tonight".
I don't want to rush anything, though when he dropped me off at home, I asked him if we could see each other again this upcoming Sunday night, and he was okay with it.
Maybe I'm overthinking all of this? Maybe we're moving too fast?
We met on Grindr a couple weeks back, and went on our first date last Sunday the 24th, a second date last Wednesday, and our third date this evening.
He's really fun to be around, he's sweet and compassionate, and every time I'm around him, I get the butterflies in the stomach feeling.
What has me feeling uncertain though: texting him, which makes me feel like my texts go ignored for awhile (perhaps just forgotten), and tonight, on this third date.
We got around to making out in his car and I could not get the idea of us spending the night together out of my head. Nothing sexual or anything, just simply spending the night together.
I feel like I got on his nerves when I asked him about it, and later I asked him if he was sure about "not tonight".
I don't want to rush anything, though when he dropped me off at home, I asked him if we could see each other again this upcoming Sunday night, and he was okay with it.
Maybe I'm overthinking all of this? Maybe we're moving too fast?