Boyfriend won't bottom but has for ex partners

[Anocxu]

^^^^^

There's all you need to know. And the best way to solve a problem like that isn't to sit down and confront it head on and try to discuss it... the best way is to do things that make it easier to trust and be honest with each other and let the subject come up on it's own.... or maybe even solve itself.

Honest. That's the truth. We learned that beyond any doubt since March when we nearly broke up over him cheating on me. We didn't break up but just put things on hold and stopped talking about the problem....

Next thing I knew we'd both figured out what led him to feel the need to cheat and how I'd contributed to that need... We could talk about it totally honest after that... and reached a whole new level of honesty and trust we never knew existed

I really do agree with you to some extent...
In his case I think his partner avoids the topic all together...

[Darius]

Is there anything else he doesn't want to do, like kissing or oral sex? Is he intimate in non-sexual ways such as cuddling? Is he generally good/poor at communication?

Since you are the one who always has to initiate as well as him not bottoming, this is not just about sex, is it?
The problem probably lies outside the bedroom.

[Darius]

double post