Poop no matter how much cleaning! :'(

[cavillr]

and by muscle control you mean - simply resist the urge to go potty despite the building pressure?

[Darius]

and by muscle control you mean - simply resist the urge to go potty despite the building pressure?

I'm sure Beaux will explain what he means, but for myself, I would never ignore the urge to poop. Just stop what you're doing and go poop, then get back in the saddle. If it ruins the other guys mood, too bad for him, shit happens, so to speak.

Have you ever used anything other than fingers, like a dildo?

[Anocxu]

I don't have a lot of experience at being a bottom, but enough to know that my not douching was not a problem. I never did it and didn't see a reason to do it. I just knew when it was alright to stick something in there. I also don't finger myself. My fingers don't feel anything like a dick, anyway.

I guess sitting on Fire Hydrants finally paid off...

[cavillr]

[MENTION=21957]Darius[/MENTION] - yes! I I do have a dildo, but no matter what, it gets shit-dick pretty soon. Although you may be right, in that it's better to poop and return to doing it, the problem is how often it occurs - like seriously, every minute or so, I should use the washroom :/

[Beaux]

and by muscle control you mean - simply resist the urge to go potty despite the building pressure?

No, by muscle control I mean examining the interior of your anus with your fingers while flexing and relaxing the various muscles therein. Eventually, you will learn how to relax certain muscles while keeping other muscles (the ones that keep the "poop" in) taut. It really isn't difficult, think of it as kegel exercises (like women do for there vajjs) for your anus. It takes a surprisingly short period of time to master the technique, and you only need to use your fingers the first couple of times until you figure out which muscles are which.
~Beaux

[WhatsInAName]

No, by muscle control I mean examining the interior of your anus with your fingers while flexing and relaxing the various muscles therein. Eventually, you will learn how to relax certain muscles while keeping other muscles (the ones that keep the "poop" in) taut.

I'm sorry, but this is bullshit

There are only two muscles in your anus which control poop flow out of the butt, the internal and external sphincter



You cannot control the colonic peristalsis which pushes poop towards your bumhole.

One of two things is true

1. you're eating too much fibre and your poop is too loose and sticky to be washed out by douching
2. you're not douching with enough water.

For me I use a 100ml syringe.

I put in 200ml of water, then 50ml water and 50ml air. Let it sit for a minute, jiggle around a bit, then let it out.

I do this twice and 99% of the time the second wash comes out totally clean and I don't run into any poop during playtime.

That said my toy is only 6" long, so your milage may vary with toy/cock size.

I had a flexible sigmoidoscopy(camera up your arse) about 6 months back, they gave me a chemical enema which I used and it left me feeling really really dirty afterwards, so I douched as per the above but with 400ml water and some air

The camera goes 28" inside... they got about 25" in before any poop was spotted. My rectum and colon were spotless.

I laughed internally when they remarked how well the chemical enema had worked.

[Camfer]

Many guys don't need to do anything at all. For those who need to clean out, both too much water and too little water will end up with the same result.

While it's true you "cannot control the colonic peristalsis which pushes poop towards your bumhole," you *can* avoid stimulating it and causing it to happen sooner than it would normally.

Obviously too little water doesn't clean out fully. But too much water will push some water into the sigmoid colon, stimulating it to move more stuff into the rectum. If that happens then you really won't succeed in getting cleaned out. You have to learn just the right way for you with the right amount of water, so you clean out the rectum without stimulating the sigmoid colon. Talking about it is helpful to get you going in the right direction.

A year ago someone posted a link to a very detailed video on this. Sorry I don't know who posted it or what was the link. Try using the search function.

[Beaux]

I'm sorry, but this is bullshit

There are only two muscles in your anus which control poop flow out of the butt, the internal and external sphincter



You cannot control the colonic peristalsis which pushes poop towards your bumhole.

One of two things is true

1. you're eating too much fibre and your poop is too loose and sticky to be washed out by douching
2. you're not douching with enough water.

For me I use a 100ml syringe.

I put in 200ml of water, then 50ml water and 50ml air. Let it sit for a minute, jiggle around a bit, then let it out.

I do this twice and 99% of the time the second wash comes out totally clean and I don't run into any poop during playtime.

That said my toy is only 6" long, so your milage may vary with toy/cock size.

I had a flexible sigmoidoscopy(camera up your arse) about 6 months back, they gave me a chemical enema which I used and it left me feeling really really dirty afterwards, so I douched as per the above but with 400ml water and some air

The camera goes 28" inside... they got about 25" in before any poop was spotted. My rectum and colon were spotless.

I laughed internally when they remarked how well the chemical enema had worked.

Believe what you wish. It certainly doesn't affect me if you don't believe me, as I'm not having accidents or getting shit on my husbands dick--Ever.
~Beaux

PS--the External Sphincter and the Internal Sphincter are both comprised of MUSCLES. By relaxing the External Sphincter and keeping the Internal Sphincter taut, the shit stays inside.

[WhatsInAName]

PS--the External Sphincter and the Internal Sphincter are both comprised of MUSCLES. By relaxing the External Sphincter and keeping the Internal Sphincter taut, the shit stays inside.

Well yes indeed they are both comprised of MUSCLES, but being able to control these two muscles is really only of benefit if your partner/toy is 1-2" long, because that's how far apart your internal and external sphincter is

[Beaux]

Well yes indeed they are both comprised of MUSCLES, but being able to control these two muscles is really only of benefit if your partner/toy is 1-2" long, because that's how far apart your internal and external sphincter is

Before dissing people, you could try googling....
http://friskybusinessboutique.com/relaxa...anal-play/

~Beaux