08-17-2015, 10:45 AM
Blimey, this is a mess . Despite his ex being a psycho, he clearly is not over him. He is definitely not ready for a new relationship, which I believe he has alluded to before. This guy clearly has some issues which are now becoming more apparent, this guy did however, warn you that he was worried about hurting you. That of course, doesn't make it any better, but he is fulfilling that prophecy for sure .
I can't see this situation changing soon. You need to tell him how him discussing his ex is really hurting you, and to tell him perhaps you should cool things until he is fully over his ex. See what he says. At the moment however, alarm bells are ringing, and I can only see more hurt for you. If he truly loves you, and only you, he wouldn't be telling you he misses his ex. It's a tough thing to do, but I think you need to cool it with him until he sorts himself out and decides what he wants. Because from what you've said, it doesn't seem he is sure he wants the same thing as you. Communication is key here.
Best of luck whatever you decide to do
I can't see this situation changing soon. You need to tell him how him discussing his ex is really hurting you, and to tell him perhaps you should cool things until he is fully over his ex. See what he says. At the moment however, alarm bells are ringing, and I can only see more hurt for you. If he truly loves you, and only you, he wouldn't be telling you he misses his ex. It's a tough thing to do, but I think you need to cool it with him until he sorts himself out and decides what he wants. Because from what you've said, it doesn't seem he is sure he wants the same thing as you. Communication is key here.
Best of luck whatever you decide to do