My trustworthy friend ... Not anymore.

[Eru]

Ugh, don't be sad, this kind of stuffs happens all the time. Maybe since you were too close to him (by the way, is he straight?) he thinks you are getting into him so he decides to stay away, that's not very hard to happen. Oh well, everyone likes to show off a pretty face when making friends, but when you shared your secret, hmmm, there's no guarantee.

[verysimple]

Ugh, don't be sad, this kind of stuffs happens all the time. Maybe since you were too close to him (by the way, is he straight?) he thinks you are getting into him so he decides to stay away, that's not very hard to happen. Oh well, everyone likes to show off a pretty face when making friends, but when you shared your secret, hmmm, there's no guarantee.

Good point. But no, he's 100% str8!
I guess that could be a possibility.. But I take nothing personally.. It's just him; turns out he's like that with everyone, Very friendly, warm and close to ppl for a couple of days then he flips into this isolated social state where he doesn't interact with people or whatever.. Maybe he's bipolar who knows?

[verysimple]

FFS, you're 20.

O.o



It might be weird, but it's also not the whole story. If you actually didn't say or do anything, he must have gotten a very bad vibe from you.





... like the one I'm getting...

If u read the previous posts which I don't think you did You'd find that I wouldn't go out of my way to harm somebody.. So I was being sarcastic (Obviously)

[Scootaloo]

When you come out, you find alot of your so called "friends" are not who you thought they were. It's actually a good thing, because now you don't have to waste your time with him.

Of course there is always the possibility he is scared because he too wants to come out. In which case, if you play your cards right, you may have your first boyfriend.

Either way, let him come to you.

[verysimple]

*Sigh*
Our stories , history ...it really is one extension of the next..

Just like you [MENTION=22709]JohnSomebody[/MENTION] I started this crusade against

~>Chaos: ..It honestly the definition of time wasting...

Not like hanging out and passing time .. but putting constant effort into details that in turn will cause heartache on your part.
[MENTION=21000]verysimple[/MENTION]
It took John years to really believe this seemingly awesome guy was a nightmare..
He just couldn't see it..
..so many of us spend so much time doing amazing things for awful people..

I'm so glad we are stuck here forever so we can lean on each other ... without stalking..

I'm so glad you guys are here, YOU've helped me through so much and there were things I wouldn't have been able to do without your guidance

[Anocxu]

If u read the previous posts which I don't think you did You'd find that I wouldn't go out of my way to harm somebody.. So I was being sarcastic (Obviously)

Which is another reason I love reading your posts..
You don't hold back on expressing yourself.

Usually when someone posts a rant, some members forget to label it for what it is..
~>Just a rant.

*Are you going to hunt this guy down.. tie him up ..till he gives an explanation? ... NO!

*Are you going to sneak into his bedroom, tie him up.. drag him into the woods ..and torture him with poisonous snakes till he talks.?..No!

*Are you going to ambush him at school with chloroform?
Drag him into the chemistry lab .. wake him up with a suprise buffet of chemicals in syringes..? No!!!

You were upset he shut down without explanation. .

I have had a few people do that to me..

This is what I've learned..

A) If you think I am worth the effort .. Talk to me!

B) If you have a problem with me.. Talk to me..

That is what true friends do..

Hiding and blocking and dodging takes so much more effort than coming out with the truth ..

Easier said than done.
I struggle with it at times also..

[verysimple]

Which is another reason I love reading your posts..
You don't hold back on expressing yourself.

Usually when someone posts a rant, some members forget to label it for what it is..
~>Just a rant.

*Are you going to hunt this guy down.. tie him up ..till he gives an explanation? ... NO!

*Are you going to sneak into his bedroom, tie him up.. drag him into the woods ..and torture him with poisonous snakes till he talks.?..No!

*Are you going to ambush him at school with chloroform?
Drag him into the chemistry lab .. wake him up with a suprise buffet of chemicals in syringes..? No!!!

You were upset he shut down without explanation. .

I have had a few people do that to me..

This is what I've learned..

A) If you think I am worth the effort .. Talk to me!

B) If you have a problem with me.. Talk to me..

That is what true friends do..

Hiding and blocking and dodging takes so much more effort than coming out with the truth ..

Easier said than done.
I struggle with it at times also..

Well thank you. I used to hesitate from posting everything on here but now that someone's a fan.. I won't hold back! haha

U K, that's my motto in life... Be real with who you and with the ppl around you and everything will be alright.. Open communication is key to healthy relationships which I love. I just like to express my feelings, thoughts and ideas openly and am very sharing and an open book. (Just not to everyone) Lol

[Scootaloo]

*Are you going to sneak into his bedroom, tie him up.. drag him into the woods ..and torture him with poisonous snakes

where do I sign up for that

[Anocxu]

Well thank you. I used to hesitate from posting everything on here but now that someone's a fan..

Lol..
Growing up I didn't have forums.. I had to learn the the hard way regarding friendships .. pretty much traumatizing myself in the process..

I recognize so much of what you guys go through..

My new thing at age 40 is..
I gave up 'Looking' for good friends..
Instead ..
I'm focusing on 'Being' a good friend ..

You see it here all the time..
"Looking for friends"

A good friend is not 'what' you are..
It's an journey. . An accomplishment. .

It's something you have to 'be'..
Almost like a profession...

We say it all the time...
Friendships and relationships are so much work
Well, I'm learning the work we keep complaining about ..Starts and ends with "Us" or "You".

I am all over your threads this week because I personally believe you are at a critical point in your life regarding friendships and relationships. .

When I believe you are perfectly ok..

I'm throwing you out!..
Hahaha..
Teasing. .
Hugs.

[Anocxu]

where do I sign up for that

Not that kind of 'snake'..lol
Lmao...