urgent advice

[Anocxu]

If my last post struck a few nerves..
I'm sorry..

You have to move on..
There's a whole other world out there Sam...
Hugs..

[sam]

you know it's hard .. really hard .. think about all the thing we've done together it's really unbelievable .. he's literally the person i spent time on in my entire life .

[Anocxu]

you know it's hard .. really hard .. think about all the thing we've done together it's really unbelievable .. he's literally the person i spent time on in my entire life .

Sam ..
Come on now..
You're making it sound as if you've lost a friend..

You haven't..
he's still there..

[sam]

doesn't that make it harder ?

[Anocxu]

doesn't that make it harder ?

Not necessarily. .
If you decided never to speak to him again..
It would hurt you more..

[IanSaysHi]

Just seen the duplicate thread - I've thrown my two pence in the other one.

[sam]

i think time is the best thing in my hand right now .. but the problem is im only attracted to this guy .. only him in the whole world no other guy can make me fall in love with him cuz im just not interested in any other one .. we grew up together we did a million things together we slept together we sat next to each other at the school we live in the neighborhood we went shopping together i have a lot of his things in fact im wearing his t-shirt right now as we speak .. everything in my life is related to him everywhere i look there's a memory with him , we still talk everyday but i told him my feelings my true feelings about him and he just doesn't want to say it back to me but i know he has them .. i dont know what to do with him i want more i always tell him i miss and i love and he tells me me 2 and sometimes he says it to me on his own .. he just wont say he loves me the same way i do! even though i know it!

[Anocxu]

Just seen the duplicate thread - I've thrown my two pence in the other one.

I bet "two pence is" is code for something really Dirty..
Mmhhhh!

[TwisttheLeaf]

I'm sorry man, but I'm going to tell you a really HARD lesson to learn in life, yeah?

Love -does not- conquer all.

Life is not a fairy tale, and love is a wonderful thing, but it doesn't make the insurmountable suddenly easy. It doesn't make the impossible possible. It won't make the miles (and ocean) between you disappear, or his denials either if he's not ready to go there.

It makes misery more tolerable, definitely, but it can create its own misery as well.

I would say either let him go. If he refuses to let go? Then maybe in time he might come around, but it's far more likely he will simply remain a long-distance friend.

[sam]

ok now im gonna tell you things i never thought myself gonna say to anyone ,not my close ones, but here i am telling you the people that i do not really know ..
before 3 days we had this fight .. i tried to commit suicide .. but i held myself together and instead turned my cell phone OFF and any communication method and just took off .. i started my car and just drove where the streets took me i ended up in a place i'v never been more than 150 miles away from my home and i didn't go the university that day he got worried and started sending me texts .. intrantional texts he cant call. so im not thinking right i dont know what to do i cant do anything thats what im capable of .. nothing ..