12-23-2015, 07:01 AM
I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago, due to distance.
I was so sure that we could be better off apart, and so I told him, I didn’t want to hold him back if he met someone great who lives in HIS country, and to be honest, I thought at the moment that I might also get someone NEARER (but again, I’m not trying to be proud or conceited, mostly because I want HIM to be better and happier with someone nearer), then we set each other free.
We are still in touch, but much less often. at first, I felt it weird but was alright with it. Yet lately, I was so stressed out and depressed over work and life, I needed someone to talk to, and every time I logged in Facebook, I was always on the verge of telling him everything I was going through when I remembered that we are no longer bfs and I didn’t want to bother him with it. Until one day, I exploded, and had a row with my coworker, I broken down several times and finally told him, but got no answers because he didn’t go online. I cried myself to sleep that day.
The next day, He told me that I wasn’t such a loser as I described myself, and something along the lines. when we were still bfs, we send a message to each other every few hours, sometimes just emojis, but to tell the truth, back then I found it a bit too much. Guess it’s true that you never realize what you get till it’s gone, I find myself looking forward to getting message from him. At this point, I miss him so much.
But I do know deep down that he will be better off with us being apart, and we were so sad when we said goodbye, I’m in no hurry to do it again (somehow I believe we would do it again if we ever got back together).
Sorry for all the babbles (and poor English and grammar, too(grin)), maybe it is just a phase, and I just really wanted to utter all these feelings.
Anyway, thank you for finishing reading this. : )
I was so sure that we could be better off apart, and so I told him, I didn’t want to hold him back if he met someone great who lives in HIS country, and to be honest, I thought at the moment that I might also get someone NEARER (but again, I’m not trying to be proud or conceited, mostly because I want HIM to be better and happier with someone nearer), then we set each other free.
We are still in touch, but much less often. at first, I felt it weird but was alright with it. Yet lately, I was so stressed out and depressed over work and life, I needed someone to talk to, and every time I logged in Facebook, I was always on the verge of telling him everything I was going through when I remembered that we are no longer bfs and I didn’t want to bother him with it. Until one day, I exploded, and had a row with my coworker, I broken down several times and finally told him, but got no answers because he didn’t go online. I cried myself to sleep that day.
The next day, He told me that I wasn’t such a loser as I described myself, and something along the lines. when we were still bfs, we send a message to each other every few hours, sometimes just emojis, but to tell the truth, back then I found it a bit too much. Guess it’s true that you never realize what you get till it’s gone, I find myself looking forward to getting message from him. At this point, I miss him so much.
But I do know deep down that he will be better off with us being apart, and we were so sad when we said goodbye, I’m in no hurry to do it again (somehow I believe we would do it again if we ever got back together).
Sorry for all the babbles (and poor English and grammar, too(grin)), maybe it is just a phase, and I just really wanted to utter all these feelings.
Anyway, thank you for finishing reading this. : )