Scared but very curious

[Bbbb18]

I've never been with a man but I recently started to feel attracted to my roommate. I have very dirty thoughts about him but I'm scared to ask if he's gay caus I don't want to make things akward. I need tips on tricks to lead him on I don't wanna boyfriend I just want to hookup an expiriment I really wanna suck disco for the first time . I was thinking like maybe letting him accidentally walk in on me changing or maybe walki around in my underwear nd bend let in front of him who has tips to turn him on so I can try sucking cock

[InbetweenDreams]

I've never been with a man but I recently started to feel attracted to my roommate. I have very dirty thoughts about him but I'm scared to ask if he's gay caus I don't want to make things akward. I need tips on tricks to lead him on I don't wanna boyfriend I just want to hookup an expiriment I really wanna suck disco for the first time . I was thinking like maybe letting him accidentally walk in on me changing or maybe walki around in my underwear nd bend let in front of him who has tips to turn him on so I can try sucking cock

Disco? You can say dick on here...

Well firstly, any reason to believe that your roommate is gay? I mean doing all that doesn't mean he's just going to whip it out or anything...could turn into a heated situation.

As far as asking him, well there's another thread here that discusses the catch 22...

https://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?t=40094

The problem is you don't that he's gay, could be a homophobe, or worse. My advice is to find out through one of his friends, but beware, that can also lead to a awkward situation if he isn't gay because you can pretty well bet that asking someone about his sexuality will get back to him.

The other option is to get on a hookup app, like Grindr, and find someone you're attracted to. Just be safe, meet someone in a public place first, never at your/their house.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

I've never been with a man but I recently started to feel attracted to my roommate. I have very dirty thoughts about him but I'm scared to ask if he's gay caus I don't want to make things akward. I need tips on tricks to lead him on I don't wanna boyfriend I just want to hookup an expiriment I really wanna suck disco for the first time . I was thinking like maybe letting him accidentally walk in on me changing or maybe walki around in my underwear nd bend let in front of him who has tips to turn him on so I can try sucking cock

You need to work on the plot of this story, and I would strongly suggest that you find another source to help you come up with interesting plot lines. most of us here take the whole dating and relationship thing pretty seriously. The mere idea of molesting or raping someone or seducing them to have your sick, twisted fantasies fulfilled with no regard for their feelings just repulses us to the point where if you were in the room we would all take turns raping you with the handle end of my cane.

[Beaux]

My last roommate in college (some 15+ years ago), let me catch him jacking off to porn. After I "caught" him, he stood up to leave and "accidentally" dropped his phone. When he bent over to pick it up, he "accidentally" pressed his ass against my crotch. It worked for him/us...
~Beau

[LJay]

@Bbbb 18, I wonder why you equate sexual interest with being "dirty." Sex is clean and natural and should not have shame attached to it.

Remember that your roommate may not feel the same way. You might ask him how he thinks about guys having sex and be ready to discuss it, but try not to use that as a come on.

Axle has a good point that it might be best for you to look a bit further away for someone to have early experiences with. This could prevent a lot of tension in the dorm.

[princealbertofb]

@Bbbb18, I would suggest that instead of getting your roommate into an awkward situation that neither of you will feel comfortable handling later, especially if he isn't gay, and since you only want to experiment, why don't you get onto those apps that make hookups easy and find someone who is like-minded and would be glad to let you suck them off or suck you off (whichever is the plan)? At least it would seem you'd both be looking for the same thing.

Your roommate, as far as I can work out, may not be gay, or bi or even be looking for such a hookup and it may lead to more discomfort and distrust, maybe even disgust, than seems worth your while. If you don't have that ''conversation'' with him, then you'd better let it go and find a healthier way to get down and do the dirty with another male.

As @LJay said, there is actually nothing dirty about sex unless you make it so, and one more thing, I'd advise you to take your precautions anyway, whoever you find to get down and mess with. Not everyone out there will have your best interest at heart. So, be selfish, and experiment but don't be selfish, think of yourself and your partner and future partners.

Good luck finding that release. Just be safe. And by the way, to GaySpeak.

[Redmage]

Ugh....fucking straight experimenters :/

Trying to "trick" him into doing something that he may not want? Not only is that morally reprehensible, but borders on rape.

The more I see of this forum, the more I regret signing up. Seems to be full of nothing but creeps like OP and whiners.

[TigerLover]

If you really can't bring yourself to talk honestly about his sexuality. Then get drunk and talk about yours.

Tell him you're curious about other men. If it goes wrong blame it on the booze and unless he's a bastard he'll probably never talk about it again.

But if he's gay he may make you an offer you won't refuse.

[princealbertofb]

If you really can't bring yourself to talk honestly about his sexuality. Then get drunk and talk about yours.

Tell him you're curious about other men. If it goes wrong blame it on the booze and unless he's a bastard he'll probably never talk about it again.

But if he's gay in which case he may make you an offer you won't refuse.

That's one way of looking at it, but it's a little disingenuous.

[TigerLover]

That's one way of looking at it, but it's a little disingenuous.

It is a tad disingenuous yes but it doesn't require him to outright lie.

That in my opinion makes it practically saintly compared to the alternatives which all involve keeping a secret or trying to fool him.

Obviously the moral thing to do is be bluntly honest and just come out and declare his sexuality and his interest with pride.

But as is often the case the moral thing involves risk and a good deal of courage.
Plus please remember we don't know from what country this poster is posting from. I would hesitate to proscribe bold courage for a gay man living in quatar.