Giving relationship advice is tricky business. If we tell you to break up and you listen to us, we have some responsibility, but only you will have consequences. We won't have sleepless nights and heartache. You said you really love him, so let that be your guide and stand having honest, open communication. Let us know how it goes.
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Love isn't a good reason why you should stay with someone, you can be in love with someone that causes you pain and trouble in your life. or I should say it shouldn't be the only reason. it's illogical, you should be asking yourself questions like, will the relationship work out if I went back with him? will I be making the same mistake twice? what are the chances that he will start using them again, can he be committed to me, is he loyal, trustworthy, and respectful to me and himself? judge from your past experiences, and his relationships in the past, then make a decision.
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Wow, what are the odds of them screwing each other? What a soap opera.
I would advise you to ditch them both honestly. They just seem messy and you deserve better.
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Ian's "you deserve better" said it all, for me. Seriously, man. There's other men in the world. Go find a good one.
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