Are Sexual Rolls important when you get older?

[princealbertofb]

Starting to just want cuddles over sex these days tbu lol

Cuddles are probably THE thing that we crave most, as human beings. This is how we start life (if mum is there to do it) and if it isn't mum, it may be someone else doing the cuddling. Cuddling is comforting and warm, and it makes you feel safe and wanted, so no wonder it's the thing we ultimately want. However some people are not into cuddling, and I guess it's also a question of how comfortable you are with your personal image and how comfortable you are with intimacy, because cuddling is probably, like kissing, one of the most intimate things you can do. It lets the vulnerable you show, not the conquering, towering you.

[Jaycee]

When I was young I just wanted to be the top but now all I want to be is the bottom and that's all that I want to be and I am pushing 43 next year, I am an old geezer!