02-16-2017, 01:30 AM
Hey folks... Good header right? It's not whatever you're thinking.
Little backstory... this guy and I have been friends for bout a year now. He's straight and he knew I wasn't. Everything was great. We've hung out from time to time, but we talked nearly every day. I was a little off-put with him at first, because I usually don't make friends with guys. I feel like I have to prove myself around them. But I went with it cause he reminded me of another friend guy I had who was chill.
Like I've said, he's straight, but we flirted all the time. So much so that others thought we had something else going on. But we didnt. I'm just a flirt sometimes and he flirted back, so I thought it was fine. We'd occasionally hug, or smack each other on the arse. Sometimes he'd hug me from behind, which I felt was a little too much, but I eventually came to not care. It felt nice. This is how we carried on... til he got a girlfriend!!!
They've been together for a few months, and immediately everything changed. We don't talk much anymore. When I do see him, he usually looks unhappy. When I would hug him or rest my arm on his shoulder, he'd sort of flinch away. And even though I've never met his gf, she does not like me and forbids him from hanging with if she's not around. I have no idea why. I completely respected their relationship until he told me that. OK, backstory over.
A couple weeks ago, we happen to see each other and he came up and hugged me from behind. I was shocked and asked if we could talk. He told me a lot about his ridiculous relationship with gf. In the midst of us talking, I made a comment about his belly and I reached out to touch it and he flinched away like I had the plague. I asked why he does that and he responded, "you can touch me wherever, just don't grab my cock."
I was completely caught off guard with that one. I had to ask was he serious, which he was! I asked why he'd think I would? He wouldn't give me an answer. He just looked at me and kept saying my name. The conversation quickly ended and we split. Then, today I saw him and kept my distance. He acted like nothing had happened. Immediatley, he brought up the 50 Shades subject and began demonstrating on me what he liked from the movies. Mind you, I was sitting on the ground, so he's constantly putting his crotch in my face. I felt a little violated, especially since he'd just made me out to be a molester or something.
I don't know how to bring it up, or if I should? This is all confusing me and I can't get it out of my mind. I was upset that he'd even think I'd just grab his crotch out of the blue. I wouldn't do that. Not sober anyway. And after all the ass slapping we've done and the hugs from behind, now you're worried for your pecker? Then he shoves it in my face!
By bff thinks he's into me. I don't. He's never made a move. I find him attractive sometimes, but I've never made a move either cause he's straight and a friend.
What to do about this?
Little backstory... this guy and I have been friends for bout a year now. He's straight and he knew I wasn't. Everything was great. We've hung out from time to time, but we talked nearly every day. I was a little off-put with him at first, because I usually don't make friends with guys. I feel like I have to prove myself around them. But I went with it cause he reminded me of another friend guy I had who was chill.
Like I've said, he's straight, but we flirted all the time. So much so that others thought we had something else going on. But we didnt. I'm just a flirt sometimes and he flirted back, so I thought it was fine. We'd occasionally hug, or smack each other on the arse. Sometimes he'd hug me from behind, which I felt was a little too much, but I eventually came to not care. It felt nice. This is how we carried on... til he got a girlfriend!!!
They've been together for a few months, and immediately everything changed. We don't talk much anymore. When I do see him, he usually looks unhappy. When I would hug him or rest my arm on his shoulder, he'd sort of flinch away. And even though I've never met his gf, she does not like me and forbids him from hanging with if she's not around. I have no idea why. I completely respected their relationship until he told me that. OK, backstory over.
A couple weeks ago, we happen to see each other and he came up and hugged me from behind. I was shocked and asked if we could talk. He told me a lot about his ridiculous relationship with gf. In the midst of us talking, I made a comment about his belly and I reached out to touch it and he flinched away like I had the plague. I asked why he does that and he responded, "you can touch me wherever, just don't grab my cock."
I was completely caught off guard with that one. I had to ask was he serious, which he was! I asked why he'd think I would? He wouldn't give me an answer. He just looked at me and kept saying my name. The conversation quickly ended and we split. Then, today I saw him and kept my distance. He acted like nothing had happened. Immediatley, he brought up the 50 Shades subject and began demonstrating on me what he liked from the movies. Mind you, I was sitting on the ground, so he's constantly putting his crotch in my face. I felt a little violated, especially since he'd just made me out to be a molester or something.
I don't know how to bring it up, or if I should? This is all confusing me and I can't get it out of my mind. I was upset that he'd even think I'd just grab his crotch out of the blue. I wouldn't do that. Not sober anyway. And after all the ass slapping we've done and the hugs from behind, now you're worried for your pecker? Then he shoves it in my face!
By bff thinks he's into me. I don't. He's never made a move. I find him attractive sometimes, but I've never made a move either cause he's straight and a friend.
What to do about this?
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