Indeed. One downside of the focus on HIV is that it's made the other "social diseases" practically invisible.
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dreamer814 Wrote:I was dating a guy this past summer who had not had an HIV test since 2005.
But how many times had he had sex since then and with how many guys? Some guys may get through in a month what others may get through in a year or more. Everything is relative.
Fred
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Personally its something I want to try at least once, but only with somebody I've been in a relationship for a while, who I know beyond a doubt is clean and who hasnt been cheating. I'm not necessarily a trusting person, but I am notorious for being a human lie detector, so I have faith in my ability to know whether or not he's telling the truth. But then and only then would I do it.
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Barebacking. Would I do it?
Yes sure... if everything is right, I would do it.
What's sex with condom? It's like eating a candy in its wrapper.
IF I'm going to have sex with another man, I'll do it properly. With lots of lube and no condoms.
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I think it is very negligent of the porn industry to take part in bareback sex and show that stuff, but sex sells and yeah they might put a disclaimer up but the care about the green!
I will have bareback sex once I reach 87, because if i get hiv at least i would have lived.
Till then, i will never ever have bareback sex again. I had something happen to me when i was 21 or 22 (forced) by two guys and they weren't even nice enough to use a condom.
I don't really call it rape because i was drunk and my friends "left" me at a night club. If i ever see them again i just want to puke in their faces!
I worried that i had aids but after 2 tests i was HIV neg but i'll probably never forget and i know i'll never forgive
but back to the subject...
Whats so hot about bareback ? Cum? plastic dick? hmmmm
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I think the point about oral is a very good one, I am definitely guilty I don't think I have ever used a condom for oral sex. Probably not the smartest choice, but then again I don't think I have ever heard of someone getting AIDS from oral sex either.
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ardus Wrote:I think the point about oral is a very good one, I am definitely guilty I don't think I have ever used a condom for oral sex. Probably not the smartest choice, but then again I don't think I have ever heard of someone getting AIDS from oral sex either.
AFAIK There have been a few cases of men contracting HIV, where it must have been from unprotected oral sex. However there have been many cases of transmission of other sexually transmitted infections.
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Given that most people lie when questioned about sex (and everything else - but even more about sex), how can “the experts” know how HIV is contracted in any particular case? In fact I think that many people probably lie to themselves about sex. The rent boys in Spain advertise in the local press and you might be surprised to know that none of them have a c0ck that is less than 25 cm in length. What I'm saying is that someone who has contracted HIV is unlikely to tell you the truth about what they do in the sack and many of them won't know when, how and with whom they contracted the condition. So I think the jury is still out on the question of how risky oral sex is without a condom.
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