coming out stories?

[Mark]

Oh my I havent posted mine.

Basically told one mate, she told the whole school, got alot of homophobic abuse but then the guys girlfriends basically said they would dump them if they didnt shut up.

So that stopped.

But friend went on to tell everyone, and even tells people I only just meet im like fk off.

Family mum knows but thinks its a phase, sisters been too young, dad wont like it at all x

[princealbertofb]

Why do you reckon your dad won't like it at all?

[Smurlos]

Oh my I havent posted mine.

Basically told one mate, she told the whole school, got alot of homophobic abuse but then the guys girlfriends basically said they would dump them if they didnt shut up.

So that stopped.

But friend went on to tell everyone, and even tells people I only just meet im like fk off.

Family mum knows but thinks its a phase, sisters been too young, dad wont like it at all x

Argh some friend she is! :mad:

I can't be bothered to post mine in full.
But a summary:

- Told my girlfriend at the time's mate who's gay...
- About 6 months later my girlfriend said she needed to talk to me... and came out as being gay... which was a weight off my shoulders and allowed me to also confess all!
- Then told my other mate from school - who later also turned out to be gay!

Now all of my friends know that I am gay.
My mum knows that I am gay and was excellent about it. Said I should never blame myself, if anyone, I should blame her and that she always knew even though it isn't obvious! Haven not told anyone else in my family yet although all my cousins found out through facebook whoops! But again, they're fine with it wooo

[Mark]

Why do you reckon your dad won't like it at all?

Very homophobic, never got on with him as im not the son he wants basically and im not going to get into it because its VERY personal.

[princealbertofb]

Very homophobic, never got on with him as im not the son he wants basically and im not going to get into it because its VERY personal.

Suit yourself. You still seem very raw about all this. Life is not a bed of roses, seemingly. But you'll probably contradict.

[Mark]

Suit yourself. You still seem very raw about all this. Life is not a bed of roses, seemingly. But you'll probably contradict.

Its a very sore subject. You all lack the knowledge of what I know and what ive had him say to me, how hes punched me damaging my jaw, and busting my lip open, then say "oh you pussy was messing and you cant even fight back you queer", and thats not even the start. So yes it is VERY personal and one of the most painful parts to my life, I dont trust many of you on here enough to discuss and thats not an attack as I dont even trust my best mate enough in rl.

[princealbertofb]

Very sorry to hear it came to punches and wounds... Sounds like a very rough time for you. No, I won't judge. What you've been through is unfit for a father. That's no way to treat one's child. I think most of us will agree. But you've got to heal from all this hurt, so you can get on with your life, you know?

[Mark]

Very sorry to hear it came to punches and wounds... Sounds like a very rough time for you. No, I won't judge. What you've been through is unfit for a father to treat his child. I think most of us will agree. But you've got to heal from all this hurt, so you can get on with your life, you know?

Cant choose your family. And Yes you do but theres so much damage id rather him out my life completely. Anyway Like I said can we leave this here. Nothing more said.

Dont post a reply to this post please? :frown:

[carlisle27]

i need help coming out to my parentsw and friends as they still dnt know yet. i am 27 years old and i have been gay for 6 years now and in a relationship with a 56 yr old male who i now live with. i am scared that if i tell my parents they will be disapointed and angry with my discition and disown me. please help me

[princealbertofb]

i need help coming out to my parentsw and friends as they still dnt know yet. i am 27 years old and i have been gay for 6 years now and in a relationship with a 56 yr old male who i now live with. i am scared that if i tell my parents they will be disapointed and angry with my discition and disown me. please help me

I presume your parents are of your partner's age of maybe even younger? You don't tell us much about who they are as people. Do they listen? Do they speak against gays? Are they very religious. It would be easier to help you if we knew a bit more about you and them...