Do you feel that your sexual role (bottom or top) is a part of the rest of your relationship or is it just how you like to screw?
For me I feel like it's not too important, but I do feel at times that bottoming is submissive to your partner. I'm a bottom and I feel that emotionally my boyfriend is "leading" in our relationship. I feel like we are both integral parts of the relationship but that it's not my role to top and that there would be emotional ramifications to doing so.
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Hi,
I am both so i like to fit in what feels comfortable to my boyfriend.... His mainly the active one which i dont mind saves me doing more work than need be lol
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I think it shouldn't really matter, it should just be fun. If you put roles into it, then you identify each other perhaps in a way that could be problematic, at least thats what I think. though I could be way off xD
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One doesn't have to bottom submissively, you can be vey clear when and how you want to be f***ed.
Fred
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I think that roles are determined by the rest of the relationship, not the other way round.
When I meet guys I usually know whether I want to top or bottom with them. My role is just a part of my relationship with the other guy, albeit an important one.
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I am, what I consider to be, an assertive bottom. I know many people think that if I am the bottom then I must be submissive. Not true. I'm a dominate bottom.
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I'm happy to see on here only lol, I'm a submissive bottom, HOWEVER I dont mean the top has the final word on what we are doing.
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Never really thought about it that way. I hope I'm generally more interested in doing what makes my partner feel good.
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