When did you realise you were attracted to guys ?

[MusicIsLife]

Ya, im new to the site, so i didnt see this till today.:biggrin: I relized i liked guys just as much as i liked girls (maybe even a little more:tongue: ) when i was 12. But now that i think back, i relized ive always been like that. Id get crushs on guys as well as girls. I remember when i was in kindergarten, we would have swiming days. They would seperat the boys and girls so we could change. I would always look aroound while changing, surounded by boys changing.:biggrin: Now that i think about. I had my biggist fantasy when i was in kindergarten , and i didnt even appretiate it properly.:tongue:

[Mark]

Kinda jealous of these early starters. :biggrin:

[MusicIsLife]

Dont be, just because we had "fun" at an early age, dosent mean you should be jealous.:tongue: Im sure you had your moments.

[Mark]

Do you think its better it happened younger? I suppose in your case you are bi and not gay.. So it doesn't mean your closed to the idea of a girl. Hmmm

[MusicIsLife]

As a matter of fact, it wasnt only boys i went after when i was younger. I would also go for girls to. Nothing seriose, just convincing them to get in the nude.:biggrin: Lets just say there parents never let me see them again when they found out. i found it easyer to do stuff like that with boys, since we could always have an exuse for "wrestling" half naked.:tongue:

[CurtCB]

I have friend named Wesley. We have know each other since we were in first grade. I had him for a sleep over and he got morning wood. I couldn't get that out of my mind for years.
He was my first crush.
In 3rd grade my mom took me to the french quarter during summer vacation and we passed the gay bar. I noticed guys standing outside of it hugging and holding hands. I asked my Mom about it. She explained to me what was going on and it hit me like a wall. Before that I heard other kids say things about homosexuality but I never really understood what they were talking about.

[MusicIsLife]

Same with me, i didnt really know anything about homosexuality till 2nd grade when i was walking home from school with my mom, and we saw two of my teachers who were both guys makeing out in an alley.:biggrin: Me being me asked what they were doing, leaving my mom in an accward situation.:tongue:

[Mark]

I honestly.. Don't know how I found out about homosexuality.

[MusicIsLife]

It came to you in your sleep.:biggrin:

[Mark]

LOL I think it was actual a TV program.. but then I didn't come out until a later age like.. so...