When did you realise you were attracted to guys ?

[MGT]

It was such a strange process.. It did not happen all at once.

[72jay]

Probably when I was about 16... my best friend was this guy Pip; he was a skater with piercings, blonde, blue eyes, stocky build, and out of everyone I knew we always used to have the best laughs when we were together...

wow great story, awesome friend
i'd love to have a friend like that too

It was such a strange process.. It did not happen all at once.

I guess i could say kinda the same for me...

[sephirothtx]

i was an overly romanticizing little boy, my parents tell me my "imaginary friend" was called "honey" lol, as far back as i can remember i always knew i liked both guys and girls. It is safe to say i was born that way, as there was definitely not a single person pushing me to be the way i am.

[Nocturnal]

11 - 15. The "Experimenting" turned into full fledged feelings and from there it only went UP hill

[Mr. Not So Lonely]

realized at 20 did not accept and come out till 25

[A-hug-is-all-I-need]

It was such a strange process.. It did not happen all at once.

That's a very realistic answer I think more people can relate to than most realize.

I mean I guess some are just born attracted to same sex, but with others, many, it's a like fuzzy or blurred transition that can happen in moments over time, rather than all at once.

Also, there's different types of same sex attraction.
1. Some guys are attracted to other guys who are fem
2. Some guys are attracted to other guys who are masculine/macho
3. Some guys are attracted to another males intellect, and then the other stuff follows.

Sexual attraction is way more layered and complex than most realize.

[GayBexar]

The year was 1983

[Scruff Bunch]

The year was 1983

Oh that sounds like the start of a reminscient monolgue, the hazy days of glory and strife... and how it made you the man you are today... please go on

[ayushiest]

I am younger and smart boy.

[lategayer]

When I began to watch Gay porn and began to get aroused sexually. I eventually got involved in a gay site where there was information where gay men congregated. I went to site and after a few visits, I engaged a man in a sexual encounter in secluded area. Despite denying I was gay for a period of time; it became obvious I was Gay. It was a struggled since I was considered a macho man, catholic and married. But it was impossible to deny since I so enjoyed gay sex and continue to seek men. Today, I only wish I had come to understand I am GAY.