Is love lost?

[BinarySurfer]

We need a website for us helpless romantics. Plain and simple.

[Blake1122]

-the sole mate stuff is bunk
-sex is going to happen, how is this a bad thing.

you think you must have a sole mate to have a relationship your wasting your time. this person you met and or your self are likely going to change in only a moderate amount of time. at best your spouse is your best friend but most important it is someone you love. you put your interest second to the needs of the relationship.

much has been said how but look at the saturation with straight sex. guys, we have some catching up to do.

No one said sex was bad. It just seems people JUST want to have sex and then leave you. I'm looking for a relationship, not to be someones sex slave. I'm looking for commitment and love.

[pellaz]

... people JUST want to have sex and then leave you ...

all that can transpire in 3 days, a weekend maybe. i would say you might ask them up front what their intentions are and prevent the whole thing from happening or better enjoy the weekend.

i just dont see how one could get attached to the situation or even have to morn its passing.

[72jay]

It just seems people JUST want to have sex and then leave you.

That's just what I don't want to happen...if it did I'd probably end up heartbroken...I really don't know if I could take that

I'm looking for commitment and love.

Like you I feel exactly the same on this one
Does it really exist?...I don't know
Will I ever find someone to love?...I seriously doubt it (because of both my shyness and where I live)...but "never say never"

[Jay]

I'm 28 and still a virgin by choice. And probably due to stupidity too. But even if it's stupidity, it's still my choice and am comfortable with it.

The reason why I decided to stay virgin until this very day is because I'm saving myself for the right guy. The one. All of my friends know this. Thank heaven no one thinks its lame (Or I'll give that person a big love knuckle punch. Kidding).

Yeah, the chances for that Mr.Right to be a virgin is zero to none. That's fine with me.

Probably one day I will lose my virginity to Mr A but only to find out that Mr A is not the guy that I was looking for. Will I regret for losing my virginity? No. At least I know that on that moment, I believe he was Mr Right and I was willing to be banged by him willing fully with all my heart and soul.

I believe in finding true love. I'm a sucker for romance. Curse you, romance movies, songs and novels!

[Blake1122]

I'm 28 and still a virgin by choice. And probably due to stupidity too. But even if it's stupidity, it's still my choice and am comfortable with it.

The reason why I decided to stay virgin until this very day is because I'm saving myself for the right guy. The one. All of my friends know this. Thank heaven no one thinks its lame (Or I'll give that person a big love knuckle punch. Kidding).

Yeah, the chances for that Mr.Right to be a virgin is zero to none. That's fine with me.

Probably one day I will lose my virginity to Mr A but only to find out that Mr A is not the guy that I was looking for. Will I regret for losing my virginity? No. At least I know that on that moment, I believe he was Mr Right and I was willing to be banged by him willing fully with all my heart and soul.

I believe in finding true love. I'm a sucker for romance. Curse you, romance movies, songs and novels!

Go you!!!! I totally can relate to what your saying:biggrin:

[Blake1122]

That's just what I don't want to happen...if it did I'd probably end up heartbroken...I really don't know if I could take that

Like you I feel exactly the same on this one
Does it really exist?...I don't know
Will I ever find someone to love?...I seriously doubt it (because of both my shyness and where I live)...but "never say never"

((Hugs)):biggrin: Hope you find him! You sound like you deserve Mr. Right!mile:

[SleepTalker]

Well im in a really tough situation right now. Love is the last thing i want to think about right now. My heart is in a healing process right now so i tend to shy away from anything dealing with love. I dont think its lost, but i think its hard to come by. I also want someone who will love me for who i am. Its just hard to find that person so theres times where i ask myself the same question. Is love lost?

[72jay]

That's just what I don't want to happen...if it did I'd probably end up heartbroken...I really don't know if I could take that

Like you I feel exactly the same on this one
Does it really exist?...I don't know
Will I ever find someone to love?...I seriously doubt it (because of both my shyness and where I live)...but "never say never"

((Hugs)):biggrin: Hope you find him! You sound like you deserve Mr. Right!mile:

Thanks man! :redface: Hope you find someone as well

Well im in a really tough situation right now. Love is the last thing i want to think about right now. My heart is in a healing process right now so i tend to shy away from anything dealing with love. I dont think its lost, but i think its hard to come by. I also want someone who will love me for who i am. Its just hard to find that person so theres times where i ask myself the same question. Is love lost?

I hope your heart heals quickly & stronger than before Maybe love is lost...or maybe true love just hasn't been found yet ?

[Paul]

I understand you It actually took me and my boyfriend about 4 months to develope and fall in love with each other, but I know there are people who would not wait such long time. Don't rush yourself I am sure if the person is right might wait aswell.